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real estate lawyer & contract designer | rechtsanwältin | legal counsel real estate on demand

Oh what a week... 🌪️ It started with a storm that kept us up at night, that pushed over giant trees and that burst our neighbours' windows. 💦 Said storm damaged our roof and in night no. 2 we woke up to the sound of a shower. Turns out nobody was showering at 3 am and the "shower" was in fact in our living room. So. much. water. 🌙 Then there was Eid al-Fitr and our oven gave up in the midst of prepping a million different dishes. 🦟 Sometime then I was attacked by a vicious mosquito. 31 (!) bites that have kept me up for hours in the last few nights and that make me very uncomfortable during the day. 🤒 And obviously, this is the week where one of the kids gets properly sick. And needs me everytime I have finally fallen asleep 😴 You probably figured that this week was far from ideal to work. So, I let my clients know that I won't get everything done as usual, rescheduled some meetings and prioritized. And you know what? None of them had a heart attack 🤗 Before leaving #biglaw last year, this hectic week would have been a nightmare. The feeling of guilt and an unhealthy sense of duty would make me finish tasks in the middle of the night, be distracted while caring for my kid and on top of it all: already stress about how I will be able to catch up on #billables before the end of the month. #nopressure This time around, I will get some proper rest. I will spend some time in the sun this weekend, accept the mess and be kind to myself. We'll order groceries and food, watch movies and maybe take a drive. And when the kids are at school and in kindergarden next week, I might even take one morning off 😱 (shocking, I know). And then I'll be back, rested and refreshed. And I'll enjoy what I do and will be able to deliver some quality work. It now seems absurd to do it any other way ❤️ Pic shows the calm before the storm, literally.

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Senamile Zungu

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1mo

I can relate to this. One of my telltale signs that I wasn’t suited for big law was my inability to be in the moment - the pressures of practice seeped into every aspect of my life and I knew I had to pivot. So happy that you’ve found balance✨

What a week. Hope you can recharge at the weekend and that your kids get well soon. However ... seems you made some good decisions in the last year.

Ruben Hofmann

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1mo

So sorry to learn about the storm in Capetown. Fingers crossed there won‘t be too much lasting harm.

Katharina Wittenbrink

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1mo

What a week 🥴 Hope you get some time for yourself and recharge 🙏

Gabriel Da Matta

Property Advocate | Founder of Surdo Prop | Attorney | Deaf & disability rights Advocate

1mo

Luckily moms are the strongest people on the planet! 💫💫💫 here’s to a better week next week Lisa Bohardien

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