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Toward an Ethnography of Silence
The Lived Presence of the Past in the Everyday Life of Holocaust Trauma
Survivors and Their Descendants in Israel
by Carol A. Kidron
CA⫹ Online-Only Material: Supplements A–C
Despite the abundant scholarship on posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and the memoropolitics
entailed by testimonial accounts of trauma and genocide, little is known of the everyday experience
of trauma survivors and their descendants. Survivor silence is thought to signify only psychological
or political repression and the “unspeakability” of traumatic pasts. It is widely accepted that the
everyday lives of trauma victims and their descendants entail only the “absence of presence” of the
past and the absence of descendant knowledge of that past, while the familial social milieu is thought
to foster only the wounds of transmitted PTSD. Contrary to the literature, ethnographic accounts
of Holocaust descendants depict the survivor home as embedding the nonpathological presence of
the Holocaust past within silent, embodied practices, person-object interaction, and person-person
interaction. These silent traces form an experiential matrix of Holocaust presence that sustains familial
“lived memory” of the past and transmits tacit knowledge of the past within the everyday private
social milieu. The ethnography of silent memory may also provide a tentative model of nontraumatic
individual and familial memory work in everyday life.
Eve was my tenth child-of-Holocaust-survivor interviewee.1
As had my previous interviewees, Eve began by saying that
she did not know anything about her parents’ Holocaust past,
because they had never spoken about it, and that she was
sorry, but she would probably waste my time. I already knew
the routine. Eve, like all the others, would soon begin telling
me about her daughter, who had had a transformative experience on her high school “March of the Living” roots trip
to Poland and had later developed a close bond with her
survivor grandparents. She would recommend that I speak
with her daughter instead—the third generation—and I
would do so, trying to avoid further “failed” interviews with
children of survivors. However, just as I was asking myself
how I could salvage my research on trauma-descendant memory-identity work, Eve was silent for a long time and said,
But you know the Holocaust was present in my home. My
mother would cry in her sleep. It would wake me up and
. . . I would put my head under the pillow so not to hear
her . . . . I knew that my father would wake her up so she
would stop screaming. If it didn’t stop, sometimes I would
Carol A. Kidron is a Lecturer in the Department of Sociology and
Anthropology at the University of Haifa (Mt. Carmel 31905, Israel
[ckidron@soc.haifa.ac.il]). This paper was submitted 30 VIII 07 and
accepted 26 VI 08.
have to wake him up so he . . . he would stop her. Sometimes
she would cry like that twice in one night. This would repeat
itself . . . night after night.
Although this was a major breakthrough in my research, I
was struck by the matter-of-fact and emotionless way Eve told
her story. The tale of survivor nightmares and weeping has
become an iconic sign of survivor suffering and has been
presented in therapeutic literature as a key symptom of posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). I asked myself, Could it be
that Eve experienced her mother’s daily distress and the disturbance to her own sleep as her taken-for-granted everyday
life-world, or was I banalizing genocidal trauma and descendant experience?2
After hearing the story, I asked Eve whether she remembered understanding at the time why her mother was crying.
She responded,
I didn’t know why she was crying, I knew she was having
a bad dream, that it must have been something very fright1. All names have been altered for confidentiality.
2. The ethical dilemma of the “banalization” of Holocaust suffering
has emerged as a central theme in Holocaust and genocide research;
scholars are concerned with the tension between critical deconstruction
of Holocaust experience (and with artistic or fictional literary representation) on the one hand and what has been culturally framed as the
“hallowed” nature of sublime genocidal suffering on the other.
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ening or painful and that it was about the Holocaust. I think
my father may have told me it was because of the Holocaust.
I didn’t know what she was dreaming about the Holocaust
or really what the Holocaust was, but . . . I knew it was
about what I didn’t know.
A new alternative category of knowing the Holocaust emerged
in Eve’s tale, a knowing without words, narrative, or history,
a knowing through the body that wakes up at night, night
after night, through the habitual taken-for-granted practice
of covering one’s head with a pillow and waking up one’s
father:3 all silent practices and tacit knowing. After hearing
Eve’s tale, I stopped asking interviewees to tell me about their
childhood or what they knew about the Holocaust, and instead I asked them if the Holocaust was present in their
homes. From then on I was told between 2 and 3 hours of
tales on the silent presence of the Holocaust in the everyday
life of the survivor home: on the survivor’s body (e.g., the
tattooed number), in survivor-descendant face work (e.g., the
child’s empathic gaze at the parent silently reminiscing), in
person-object interaction (e.g., interacting with familial photos), and in mundane practices of survivors and descendants
(e.g., eating all the food on one’s plate). Again, tales were told
matter-of-factly, as if the interviewees were telling me of their
childhood haunts.
All scholarly epistemologies would identify in Eve’s nightly
experience and her form of knowing a Holocaust-related
emotional wound and would prescribe public verbal articulation as the key to healing. Psychologists such as Langer
(1991) would diagnose survivor PTSD and the potential of
intergenerationally transmitted PTSD. Talk therapy would
elicit the Holocaust tale from the survivors and allow the
descendants to work through the void in their lives. Both the
Holocaust philosopher, such as Blanchot (1986), and the historian, such as Friedlander (1992), might refer to the “unspeakable” quality of genocidal suffering and call on parent
and child to document their fragmented experience. In contrast, revisionist historians and politically conscious social scientists would call our attention to the scars of hegemonic
silencing of parent and child and again encourage the survivor
family to defiantly voice their tales of suffering.
The above epistemologies would also agree that Eve had
experienced the presence of absence: her mother’s cries were
like Derrida’s (1976) “trace,” signifying the presence of what
was no longer, a historical past the daughter would never
know. The common metaphor used for this presence of absence—the void—would repeatedly represent the descendant
legacy. The deep, repressed selves of the survivor and the
descendant and their Holocaust past would become fully present on the surface of the social context only when the silenced
or the “unsayable” had been publicly articulated (Handelman
2004). Testimony, talk therapy, or a revisionist voice would
3. Although this recalls Stoller’s (1997, 61) sound-pain, I would like
to problematize the explicit link between the sound and pain in Eve’s
everyday experience.
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turn the suffering survivor and descendant from passive objects into healed and redeemed subjects and in the process
contribute to the moral salvage mission of collective commemoration.
Yet after 55 in-depth ethnographic interviews with children
of Holocaust survivors, my findings point to an enormous
gap between the above academic discourse and the descendants’ sense of self and recollections of their childhood. Despite their familiarity with the psychological literature, 80%
of my interviewees (including Eve), asserted that they were
not suffering from the effects of transmitted trauma.4 The
great majority did not wish to document their families’ Holocaust history, and an astounding 95% insisted that they
would not testify publicly to their parents’ tale or to their
own childhood past. Instead of making the past “publicly”
present, the majority would be sufficed by the silent presence
of surviving remnants of the Holocaust in their domestic lifeworld. Silent parent-child interaction, person-object relations,
and mundane practices of survival would suffice. As outlined
below, by forming an experiential matrix, these silent traces
maintain an intimate and nonpathological presence of the
Holocaust death-world in the everyday life-world. How, then,
can we explain the gap between academic discourse and the
everyday lives of descendants?
If we are to question the relevance of available paradigms,
we must begin by listening to descendant accounts of their
phenomenological experience of silent traces of the past in
the survivor home. If these accounts do challenge existing
explanatory frames, how may we provide an alternative or
supplementary analysis of descendants’ silent memory work,
of Eve’s form of “knowing” the past? Rather than marking
the absence of the past, could the silent matrix of Holocaust
presence function as nonverbal communication and intergenerational “transmission”? Could this silent transmission
engender a tacit knowledge of genocide? How might we explain the marginal scholarly interest in silent memory work
and the nonpathological transmission of difficult pasts? We
turn first to epistemologies of silence that frame our understanding of silent memory.
Logocentric Paradigms of Silence
When exploring popular cultural and social scientific conceptualizations of silence, one discovers that silence is understood as signifying the absence of speech. Silence, as negatively marked absence, is all the more problematic because
it deviates from the Eurocentric psychosocial norm of voice.
The absence of voice is understood as signaling psychopathologized processes of avoidance and repression, socially suspect processes of personal secrecy, or collective processes of
political subjugation. Whether the issue is personal, communal, or national silence, well-being is thought to be con4. Although 25% had undergone psychosocial therapy, more than half
of this sample critiqued the PTSD construct.
Kidron Toward an Ethnography of Silence
tingent on the liberation of voice. It is asserted that these
logocentric readings have led to a neglect of the phenomenon
of silence as a medium of expression, communication, and
transmission of knowledge in its own right or as an alternative
form of personal knowing that is not dependent on speech
for its own objectification.
The field of psychology has framed silence as the failure of
speech, as dysfunctional absence in need of therapeutic redemption through the restoration of voice. Although Freudian
psychodynamic theories have engendered a hermeneutics of
suspicion regarding all forms of repressed memories (Illouz
2008), the repression of traumatic memory and the ensuing
silence have recently taken center stage (Ballinger 1998).
Trauma-related silence is discursively framed as the burial or
repression of speech, resulting not from personal volition but
rather from the unspeakable nature of an experience that is
beyond narrative. The traumatic event is considered to have
created a rupture in the linear flow of experience, so that any
attempt at verbal representation will inherently resist narrative
(Caruth 1995).
According to the illness construct of PTSD, trauma survivors, having experienced such a rupture, may suffer from
chronic depression, repression of traumatic memories, and
incomplete mourning, resulting in emotional hardening or
numbness (Barocas and Barocas 1973; Schwartz, Dohrenwend, and Levav 1994).5 The syndrome is thought to often
impair survivor parenting, which is described as incapable of
affect and intimacy and overprotective of the child (Zilberfein
1995). The literature concludes that descendants may suffer
from transgenerationally transmitted effects of PTSD, expressed in a series of maladaptive behavioral patterns and a
damaged sense of self (Halik, Rosenthal, and Pattison 1990).
The descendant profile includes the repression of emotions,
difficulties with intimacy, fear of separation, obsessive involvement in the lives of their parents, failure to separate and
individuate, and, finally, potential suboptimal parenting of a
new trauma-descendant generation (Kogan 1995).6 According
to the therapeutic paradigm of “completing the story,” the
survivor and the descendant are called on to undergo talk
therapy to reexplore the repressed past and complete “unfinished mourning” within a therapeutic framework (Dasberg
1992, 45). Without this treatment, the trauma victim may be
unable to share memories, only to be haunted by silent mem5. For a comprehensive review of the literature on trauma, see Kirmayer, Lemelson, and Barad (2007). For a critical, deconstructivist approach to PTSD, see Young (1995) and Ballinger (1998). For a deconstruction of transmitted PTSD, see Kidron (2003).
6. In contrast to clinical studies, the majority of nonclinical studies
have found no significant differences between the second generation and
control groups (Bilu and Witztum 1997). Having found no evidence of
psychopathology or severe emotional problems, recent studies have tested
for alternative attachment behavior and representations (Sagi-Schwartz
et. al. 2003; Bar-On et al. 1998). Once again, evidence of maladaptive
behavior has not been found. These findings have brought about a shift
in terminology in clinical studies from “transmission of trauma” (or
“secondary traumatization”) to “intergenerational effects of trauma.”
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ories and to suffer from PTSD-related symptoms. Having
pathologized silent responses to trauma, the literature puts
forth the articulation of traumatic memory as personally redemptive (Leys 1996; see CA⫹ online supplement A).7
The approach of Holocaust and genocide studies to silence
may be seen as a composite of the foundational assumptions
of psychological trauma theory and those of the “philosophers
of genocide” (see supplement A).8 Adorno’s ([1949] 1975)
critical statement—that there can be no poetry after the Holocaust—is emblematic of the field’s approach to silence as
signifying the ineffability of the disaster (Blanchot 1986), the
limits of its representation, and the ultimate absence of its
presence. Scholars such as White (1992), La Capra (1994),
and Friedlander (1992) struggle with the ethical and practical
question of how one may produce a history of genocide when
the event is beyond words, beyond narrative, and thus beyond
representation. In keeping with Derrida’s (1976) negative dialectics, semiotically speaking, if the Holocaust was sublime,
unlike anything that had preceded it (Kristeva 1980; Lyotard
1983), what could possibly signify or represent the event?
Turning to therapeutic precepts, genocide historians and therapists would attempt to access previously repressed and absent
“deep memory,” allowing it to rise to the social surface and
become present (Langer 1991). Once accessed, survivor accounts would not only be therapeutic for the survivor but
also would contribute to testimonial knowledge toward commemorative history (Young 1988). One might ask, however,
What of the nonverbal, intersubjective, embodied, and material traces of the past in everyday life, forms of knowledge
that resist articulation and collective enlistment? Do these
traces subsist as “deep”/repressed memory below the social
surface? How might these nonnarrative forms of presence
signify the presence of the past? Perhaps it would be left to
anthropology to trace this form of presence in everyday life.9
7. The term “pathologization” is used in the tradition of psychological
anthropology and medical anthropology, in which cultural discourse and
practice that constitute or interpret embodied or emotive signs are identified as symptoms of physical or emotional illness or distress (whether
or not they are “essentially” pathological or phenomenologically experienced as such). In certain settings, the identification and construction
of illness might then culminate in diagnoses and biomedical treatment
(i.e., the process of medicalization).
8. Readings of speech and silence in philosophy may be seen as foundational in the approach of these philosophers of genocide (see supplement A). These readings present silence as a failure of speech, silenced
speech, a prelude to speech, or an alternative “speech” that can only long
for verbal articulation. For a discussion of these approaches, see Gurevitch
(2001).
9. Psychology’s foundational assumptions regarding trauma have saturated scholarship in almost all fields of the social sciences and humanities. In particular, sociology, collective-memory studies, and culture studies have explored the sociopolitical construction of collective silence and
forgetting/silencing and the collectively therapeutic role of voice. The
fields of narrative studies, discourse analysis, and symbolic interactionism
have also explored silence, but primarily as a backdrop to speech (see
supplement A).
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Anthropologies of Genocide
and Memory
The holistic and emic perspectives of anthropology could pave
the way for a more grounded exploration of silent memory
work and deconstruct the paradigms framing our understanding of the presence of the past in everyday life. By challenging
reductionist readings of the survivor and descendant profiles
as silent/silenced, emotionally wounded, and collectivized, anthropological research methods would allow the survivor and
descendant subjects to articulate the experience of silence and
the everyday practices of silent forms of interaction. There
have, however, been surprisingly few attempts to apply such
an approach to genocide-related phenomena, with the great
majority of anthropological studies focusing only on the
methodological, ethical, and political implications of giving
voice to silenced genocide victims (Scheper-Hughes 2002) or
on monumental/hegemonic institutional commemorative
practices (Feldman 2008; Handelman 1990). The newly emergent subfield of the anthropology of genocide (Hinton 2004)
has, in fact, presented a culture-sensitive portrayal of the effect
of trauma and alternative forms of representation and commemoration (Dwyer 2004). However, the act of ethnography
and the documentation of the voices of traumatized respondents has also taken the form of a moral and political mission,
as the anthropologist-turned-activist serves to liberate trauma
victims from the “shadows of silence” (Waterston and RylkoBauer 2006). With silence as the battleground of this academic
crusade, failures to verbalize painful pasts become highly
charged and contested objects of research. When survivor
silence is conceived solely as politically and ideologically
loaded absence, ethnography fails to seek phenomenological
accounts of the silent presence of the past.10
In the emerging field of the anthropology of memory
(Werbner 1998), scholars have in fact called for a shift in
attention away from theoretical accounts of the discourses of
memory toward more grounded research on the actual practices of nonmonumental memory. Pioneering works by White
(2000), Cole (2001), Cattell and Climo (2002), Berliner
(2005), and Argenti (2007) have presented ethnographies of
embodied memory. Yet in keeping with the (macro) tradition
of social-memory studies (Olick and Levy 1997; Di Paolantonio 2000), they continue to highlight the dialectical points
of the nexus between macro processes of hegemonic and/or
colonial and postcolonial violence and their subjects’ em10. Throughout the review of the literature, the term “political” has
been used to signify scholarly conceptions of silenced memories or embodied practices of memory as having been either hegemonically silenced
and or forgotten, thus disempowering those who silently remember, or
interest in processes of recollection and rearticulation of silenced memory
as acts of reempowerment. Although all forms of memory can be political
if the act of memory is experienced as an outcome of power relations
or as concerned with empowerment, not all memory work hinges equally
on power relations and empowerment and power-related memories may
also be examined as process and practice while temporarily bracketing
practice from its political-discursive context.
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bodied pasts.11 Thus, those who have embodied the past are
again read as performing grassroots practices of hegemonic
memory, resistant memory, or countermemory. I propose,
however, that the lived experience of embodying or interacting
with traces of the past may not always be politically motivated
or performed as acts of resistance or as capitulation to hegemonic indoctrination or appropriation. Thus, despite the
great salience of this macro-micro nexus, scholarly interest in
the political instrumentalization of memory and/or the political semiotics of memory work (the way memory has been
put to work to re-present politically meaningful/forgotten
pasts) has elided a closer examination of the mechanics of
the micro pole of the axis in its own right, namely, the way
in which everyday, taken-for-granted mnemonic practices are
constituted, sustained, and intergenerationally transmitted to
create the silent yet no less living presence of the past.12 In
order to focus on the way memory silently “works” and is
made present in everyday life, this ethnographic study presents trauma-descendant accounts of the silent presence of the
genocidal past in their familial life-worlds.
Methodology
As part of a comprehensive research project entailing ethnographic interviews and participant observation
11. Lambek and Antze’s (1996) Tense Past must be seen as the true
pioneer in the field of memory-identity work. Although it presents a
wide range of scholarship on difficult pasts, this volume did not, however,
focus on mundane and tacit practices of memory. The scholars cited
above have all uniquely contributed to the ethnographic data on the way
memories of the past are encapsulated in nonverbal collective ritual practices and inscribed in the performing body (Werbner 1998; Cole 2001;
Berliner 2005; Argenti 2007) and/or the way the past is emotively remembered by individuals responsive to the limits of hegemonic remembering or forgetting (Climo 1995; White 2000; Berliner 2005). Kleinman
and Kleinman (1991) have also discussed their subjects’ experience as
the nexus between “microcultural and infrapolitical processes,” and they
have focused on the illness and health of medicalized and pathologized
selves. Although the research presented here shares many of the subdisciplinary foci of these studies, this paper aims to trace the practices
sustaining the tacit presence of difficult pasts in everyday mundane (nonritual) and domestic (noncollective) life.
12. A number of studies in the subdisciplines of anthropology of material culture, and anthropology of place and a few exceptional works in
the anthropology of memory have explored various aspects of mnemonic
experience relevant to this study. Bahloul (1992) and Stewart (1993) offer
fascinating insights into processes of private domestic memory, yet they
do not deal with difficult pasts. Stoller’s (1997) seminal work provides
insights into the sensuous aspects of certain embodied memories. Williams’s (2003) intriguing work on the silent interaction of Gypsy familial
memory provides important parallels with my case study, although there
are important differences. In addition, such scholars as Feld and Basso
(1996), Bell (1997), and Turnbull (2002) have explored the nexus of
landscapes, places, and, in some cases, tacit memory, yet they, too, do
not focus on difficult pasts. Carsten’s (2007) important volume on kinship
and memory deals with familial memory, transmission, and difficult pasts,
but the majority of papers echo the assumption that traumatic pasts must
be contextualized within macro processes and will engender scarred or
challenged relations.
Kidron Toward an Ethnography of Silence
(2001–2003), I conducted 55 in-depth interviews with children of Holocaust survivors in Israel (Kidron 2005). The
sample was recruited using the snowball method; respondents
ranged in age between 35 and 55, with 30 (54%) women and
25 (46%) men. The great majority were born in Israel to
survivor parents who had emigrated to Israel from Europe in
the late 1940s and 1950s after surviving Nazi extermination
camps, forced-labor camps, ghetto incarceration, or periods
of hiding (see CA⫹ online supplement supplements B, C).
After an initial period of economic hardship, the majority
achieved middle- to upper-middle-class status, and the majority of descendants acquired some form of higher education.
In-depth interviews were conducted in a semistructured, thematic format. Interviewees were asked open-ended questions
concerning their childhood and the present, allowing them
to narrate the self as they saw fit. In accordance with the
concept of “narrative truth,” the issue at hand was not
whether they presented their “true” identities (Lieblich, TuvalMashiach, and Zilber 1998, 7–8) but the ways in which they
narratively constructed and selectively represented selfhood.13
I believe that my insider status as a child of Holocaust survivors and my willingness to recollect and share my own
personal memories with the descendants facilitated my entry
into their intimate and silent life-/death-world.
Results
The Matrix of Silence
Descendants recounted the nonverbal and partially verbal
traces of the Holocaust interwoven in everyday life. These
traces form a vital experiential matrix of Holocaust presence
in the private domain. The matrix entailed the following “media” of presence: silent survivor-descendant interaction with
surviving artifacts of the death-world, descendant virtual interaction with ghosts of the Holocaust dead, survivordescendant face/emotion work, practices of survival carried
over from the Holocaust, and parent-child dialogic interaction
in the form of dicta and fragments of mythic tales of survival.
This paper focuses on person-object interaction, personperson interaction, and practices of survival.
Person-Object Interaction and the Embodiment of
Memento Mori
When asked about the presence of the past in the childhood
home, descendants recalled the presence of material traces as
part and parcel of everyday household life. These material
traces are depicted as integral “actors” in the drama of
13. Questions attempted to elicit responses along the following themes:
past and present parental behavior and parent-child relationship; childhood memories of Holocaust-related dialogue, storytelling, and/or practices in the home; past and present “consumption” of Holocaust-related
discourse and cultural products; participation in Holocaust-related practices in the public domain; and envisioned future of commemorative
practices. See supplement B for further details.
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survivor-descendant interaction, functioning as bridges to the
Holocaust past. The objects fall into two categories: those
embedded in the survivor’s body (i.e., the tattooed number
and wartime scars) and surviving “freestanding” artifacts of
the death-world (e.g., a utensil from Auschwitz or prewar
family photographs). Both categories function ambiguously
as both mundane household objects and sanctified repositories for the presence of the absent past.
The blue number tattooed on the survivor’s arm has become one of the most powerful symbols of the authentic
presence of the Holocaust past. It is the epitome of the physical trace, metonymically signifying the presence of the past,
yet unlike the footprint, it does not wear away with time. In
the 1950s and 1960s, the tattooed number “gave away” survivors, who at times felt ashamed of their past, some hiding
the tattoo under long sleeves and others surgically removing
the number (Lentin 2000). Changing discourses surrounding
victimization and the impending demise of the survivor generation have recently transformed public response to one of
veneration. Although remaining on the “private” survivor’s
arm, the number has been appropriated as material witness
to the dehumanization of genocide. As Primo Levi asserts,
“my tattoo has become a part of my body. I don’t glory in
it . . . but I don’t erase it since there are not many to bear
witness” (Levi 1989, 118). The metonymic symbol having
been collectivized, little attention has been paid to the role
of the tattooed number in survivor parent–child relations.14
When asked about the presence of the Holocaust in her
home, Hannah began her account with her “discovery” of the
tattoo on her mother’s arm:
H: I guess the first thing that comes to mind is my
mother’s tattoo . . . . The first time I remember noticing it was when we were on the bus . . . . I looked at
other people’s arms and saw that they didn’t have one.
I asked her why the others didn’t have a number like
hers. She answered, “Don’t talk nonsense.” I got upset
and told her to take it off. When she didn’t respond, I
touched it to see if it was connected . . . or, you know,
like a Band-Aid that you could take off. She got very
angry at me and pulled down her sleeve.
C: Did you ask her about it again?
H: No, you know, you just figure out somehow when
you’re not supposed to push something sensitive. Of
course later on . . . I knew, but somehow I never forgot that feeling of wanting to rub it off like . . . like a
stain or something.
14. Beyond brief references in descendant memoirs to survivors’ public
embarrassment (Burkitt 2002), little is known of person-object relations
surrounding the tattoo.
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Hannah’s text recounts her discovery of her mother’s Otherness. Her mother’s difference lies in the “corporeal ambiguity” of her tattoo as an object physically embedded in the
corporeal self, totally blurring the boundaries between human
subject and material object (Seaton 1987). Is the tattoo “connected”—an inseparable part of her mother’s arm—or is it
a removable sign like Hannah’s “Band-Aid”? Is it part of her
mother’s subjective corporeal self or is it object? As in Saunders’s analysis of bullets transformed into trench art (“mixing
metal with flesh”; Saunders 2000, 53), here we have the permanent, chemical-based, Nazi serial number inscribing murderous bureaucratic efficiency in flesh. Unlike freestanding
memento mori, the tattoo cannot be discarded or permanently hidden in a drawer; neither can it pass as a mundane,
non-Holocaust-related object. The tattoo’s permanence and
almost seamless yet disturbing incongruent presence on the
body are revealed when Hannah touches it, attempting to
remove the embodied sign and thereby discovering that it is
inseparably “entangled” in her mother’s physical self. Here
the visceral sense of touch is critical in Hannah’s “body-felt”
formative contact with the Holocaust past (Stoller 1997).
Revisionist readings of descendant experience might contextualize Hannah’s story as evidence of the humiliation and
collective silencing of the survivor family (Lentin 2000). Yet
when asked to explain why she wanted to rub the tattoo off,
Hannah referred again to the incongruence between body and
object, stating, “it just didn’t seem to belong on her arm.”
One might read the text as a child’s innocent response yet
insist that it is witness to the traumatic plight of the survivor
family forced to come to terms with the altered semiotics of
the death-world (Wyschogrod 1985). Although valid, such
ideologically loaded frames “cut out” mundane responses critical to an understanding of the descendant experience of embodied memory. Depicting her discovery of the tattoo, Penny
recounted with a very large smile,
I remember . . . when I first . . . I mean when I noticed
my father’s number. I must have been about 4. I asked him
why I don’t have one, too.
Seeing my surprise, Penny giggled and said,
Sure, why not? . . . He had one! . . . Why are you surprised?
. . . Kids don’t know!”
Continuing the story, she recounted,
He laughed . . . and said I don’t get to have one. I said but
I wanted a number too, like his [long laugh] . . . . He looked
at me very seriously and said bad people did it to him and
that I shouldn’t want one.
Penny’s story is shocking in its lighthearted depiction of a
child’s “healthy” curiosity. As in Benigni’s Life is Beautiful,
she turns the tables on the logic of the death-world, playing
its game by demanding her own number. In contrast to our
conception of a traumatic constitutive moment, the text not
only normalizes the discovery of the tattoo but also depicts
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Penny as still irreverently amused. Her explanation—“Why
not? . . . Kids don’t know”—forces the listener to reconsider
the child’s taken-for-granted life-world, where a number on
a parent’s arm, devoid of historical or cultural reference,
might seem like a removable Band-Aid or, in Penny’s case, a
coveted accessory. Echoing Levi’s reference to the tattoo as
“part of his body,” we also realize that, experientially, descendants notice the tattoo only when comparing a parent’s
arm to other arms. At first, the tattooed arm, as a parental
arm, is all they “know.” The arm later becomes ambiguous
when compared to other arms, but the tattoo is then reconceptualized as an inseparable part of the parent’s arm and
not, as one might suppose, as a walking “lieu de mémoire”
(Nora 1989).
Although Hannah is not provided with the tattoo’s historical trajectory, Penny’s father does tell her why she
“shouldn’t want one.” However, for Penny this is not the
heart of the anecdote she wants to tell; rather, she has framed
her story as evidence of her own precocious nature and a
subversive attempt to deconstruct descendant suffering. What
the listener anticipates will be a Holocaust tale of emotionally
jarring sequelae is presented as a mundane tale of precocious
behavior.
In contrast, Ricki is guided by the historical and symbolic
significance of her father’s tattoo:
I used to sit with my father and stare at his number . . . long
and hard . . . [long pause, tears well up in her eyes]. I would
try to imagine what it was like to be . . . branded. What it
felt like when they burned it into his flesh. Did it hurt? Was
he scared? I would stare until [her voice breaks] . . . . I could
[she can’t speak, long pause] . . . until I could . . . [she
composes herself with difficulty] . . . feel it on my arm.
This moving text begins in mundane everyday life; its opening
frame—“I used to sit with my father . . .”—orients the listener
to a recurring event (Young 1987). It does not point, as in
Hannah or Penny’s stories, to the one-time event of the discovery but instead points to what seems like a habitual domestic practice. Ricki utilizes the tattoo as Bell’s (1997) “portable place,” a medium of chronotopic travel capable of taking
her to her father’s Holocaust past. Despite temporal/spatial
barriers, if she stares long enough, she may accomplish the
empathic feat of vicariously “being together in concerted
time” (Sharon 1982) with her father during his “branding.”
She seeks not factual knowledge of why or when or by whom
this was done to her father but rather to know whether it
hurt or scared him. Ricki longs for what Young describes as
a shared experiential world via the “memory of the flesh”
(Young 2002, 25). Yet how could Ricki possibly feel the branding of her own arm? One might refer to this vicarious experience as a “phantom of desire” (Young 2002, 45). Just as
an amputee may feel a missing leg, Ricki might “break apart
objective reality to create an alternative” (p. 45), phantom
experience. But before borrowing the analogy, one must consider that Ricki has never been branded. How, then, could
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she imagine the experience? Psychological discourse might
diagnose Ricki as suffering from heteropathic identification
(Silverman in Hirsch 1997, 273, n6), the pathological ability
to take on the memory of others. Young (2002, 45), however,
asserts that “patterns of love, yearning and desire” can create
a sense of embodiment even if that past has not been personally experienced. Ricki’s memory work with the tattoo
clearly recalls Latour’s (1996) “actant,” the object whose relational will or force affects Ricki as agent as she interacts
with her father through material culture in the practices of
everyday life.
It should also be noted that Ricki breaks down in the middle
of her account. Her cry-talking (Katz 1999, 208) aesthetically
conveys and bridges two symbolically incommensurate
worlds, the mundane interview event in the present and her
intense childhood empathic journey to her father’s past. The
tattoo, as embodied object, and her crying, as embodied emotional response, may be seen as critical conduits linking incommensurable chronotopes and incommensurable forms of
interaction.
“Mementos in Flight” from the Death-World
Descendants also describe person-object interaction with surviving artifacts carried away in flight from the death-world.
Although, like the embodied tattoos, these freestanding objects can be shown to make the absent past present, at work
here is the feat of imagining the kinetics of everyday objectperson relations in practice and, to a lesser extent, the vicarious feeling of bodily pain. Rather than imagining what something felt like on the body, one imagines what it was like to
use or do something with an object. When telling me about
the presence of Holocaust in her home, Michelle excused
herself and returned proudly with a tablespoon in her hand.
I stared at the spoon, wondering why she was showing me a
spoon in the middle of our interview. She told me, smiling,
“This was my mother’s spoon.” Still confused, I politely said,
“Really,” sensing that I should be responding to something
of importance but having no idea what it was. Realizing that
I did not have a clue, she smilingly explained, “This was my
mother’s spoon in Auschwitz. This is what she ate with, you
know, the soup.”15
Attempting to restore my professional composure despite
my surprise, I asked her where the spoon was kept in her
parent’s home, thinking that it must have been in some closed
cabinet for safekeeping. She explained with a broader smile,
It was in the kitchen, in the drawer, with the other utensils
15. The prisoner’s bowl and spoon were coveted objects because survival depended on them. Holocaust testimonies and photographic and
cinematic representations have depicted the survivor’s experience of receiving one ration of soup and subsisting on minimal sustenance. These
objects and their representations have taken on an iconic quality.
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. . . . We ate with it. My mother fed me my morning oatmeal
with it.
At this point I was shocked. The phenomenology of the
spoon from Auschwitz strikingly echoes the literature on material culture in everyday life. Seremetakis (1994) provides an
eloquent account of the practice of Greek grandmothers who
fed their grandchildren by chewing the food to be placed in
the grandchild’s mouth so that, via the intimate bodily experience of nurturance, intergenerational transmission of
memory and meaning could take place. According to Seremetakis, it is the silent sensory experience of sharing food
that encapsulates the personal, familial, and collective past
without narrative. Although one may wonder, as I frankly
did, about the blasphemy of mundane use of a “sacred” symbol, Seremetakis asserts the contrary: it is only when the trajectory of the object moves forward into the present and
future, enmeshed in the everyday sensuous life of the household, that its semiotic meaning is preserved. Not only is socially enmeshed material practice highlighted, but relations
with others are facilitated vis à vis the object (Latour 1996),
enabling the embodiment of social relations of love, caring,
and commitment. I asked Michelle how she understood her
mother’s choice to keep the spoon in use at home and not,
for example, in a museum. Her response was enlightening in
its simplicity:
Look, she won, she survived with that spoon. Every time
she fed me or my sister she probably said to herself, “Hah,
I won—not only didn’t I die, but this spoon that kept me
alive is now feeding my children.”
I was left with open questions. At home in the private domain,
did the spoon retain its aura of a sacred symbol, or was it
just a spoon? If at home it was just a spoon, does that mean
that in the museum it was just a sacred symbol of all Auschwitz spoons, losing the personal link to Michelle’s mother as
the individual survivor who ate with it and thus no longer a
personal symbol of daily survival? Would the lived presence
of the life-giving utensil then shift into the representation of
the horrors of death?16 Would it then become part of the
collective monumental storehouse, or what Nora (1989)
termed “dead memory”? If so, had I stumbled on an account
of the phenomenology of embodied memory tightly interwoven with the everyday social milieu, what Nora (1989) and
Halbwachs (1980) meant by “lived memory”?
Beth began her account by telling me that the entire presence of Holocaust in her home “was concentrated in a drawer
in her parent’s bedroom.” Her father would periodically go
into the room and lock the door. Having occasionally been
allowed to be with him in the room, she depicts his “visits”
to the drawer:
B: The drawer was in his dresser, next to his bed. It was
his secret place, where he kept things close to his
16. I thank one of the reviewers for this interesting question.
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heart . . . He would open the drawer and begin taking
out a picture of himself with his parents from before
the war and a collection of toys he had salvaged from
his childhood. The toys included magnets, a train, and
marbles. The minute he opened the drawer, his face
changed. He became softer, more gentle, and . . .
more alive. In our everyday life he was . . . a zombie
. . . you could see the death in his eyes . . . . But
when he opened the drawer and took out his things it
was like he was taken back to his life before the Holocaust . . . to his childhood. He reenacted intimate moments of his childhood, playing with his magnets,
smiling at his family in the picture. The drawer for
me was like an enchanted forest . . . not just because
of its content but because I could be with the person I
never really knew. We would sit together on his bed
while he “played” with his things. It was really . . . intimate . . . I guess you could say that symbolically he
opened himself up when he opened up the drawer. It
was his black box, you know, like a plane, what made
him who he was. He never told me anything about
the toys or the people in the picture, no story, but by
the way he acted . . . like a child . . . and the way he
wouldn’t let any of us open the drawer ourselves or
touch his things, we knew he was back there.
C: I don’t really understand what you mean about him
being a zombie and coming alive with the drawer.
B: The way he was when he played with the drawer, so
different, so alive . . . we had to realize that his life
with us was not real to him . . . because he never really left his past. That drawer was a miniature of his
real life. With us outside the drawer he was . . . dead.
There was no connection between his two lives—just
the drawer—when it was closed it separated the before
and after the Holocaust, and when open, like a gateway into his past it let him go back to his childhood.
Beth’s moving account of her father’s visits to the drawer
offers extensive insights into the silent experiences of both the
presence of absence and the absence of presence in the survivor
home. Beth depicts her father’s processual movement into the
bedroom, into the drawer, and finally into interaction with the
relics from his childhood past. With every step closer to the
drawer, the father travels in time back into his prewar life and
to his revivified prewar self. The use of domestic space to activate chronotopic shifting into the past recalls both Yates’s
(1978) analysis of the use of topographic architectural layouts
as a material scaffold along which one may gradually trigger
recall and Turnbull’s (2002, 131) account of the movement
through architectural space as constituting and embodying a
nonverbal spatial and temporal narrative that can be performed
by the subject and read by spectators without the spoken word.
This movement toward the drawer thus resurrects the past in
and through space, just as the exposure of the objects in the
drawer to different degrees of “approaching” access and practice, not only constitutes the past in the present but also transforms “and makes the consciousness of subjects” as they move
back into and perform the past (Turnbull 2002, 134).
Once again, a person-object interaction semiotically and
sensuously resurrects the past. Beth’s father’s smiling gaze into
the images of his parents and his ritual play with the toys of
his childhood animate the images and objects and consequently make the previously absent past virtually present.
Unlike, however, Turnbull’s monolithic public structures and
the mundane spoon analyzed above, the survivor’s drawer
and its contents are exceedingly private, hidden from view,
and forbidden to even his children without supervision. How
can one understand the extreme closure of the relics of the
Holocaust past? Moving beyond psychotherapeutic frames in
which secretly coveted transitional objects encapsulate the
traumatized or displaced self (Winnicot in Parkin 1999), we
may consider the assertion by Turnbull (2002) and Latour
(1996) that in order to preserve the structural integrity and
semiotic meaning of material objects, one must maintain the
original person-object relations and prevent object deformation (Turnbull 2002, 95). This would imply that, unlike
the spoon (as a trophy of survival in everyday practice), the
toys could be used only by Beth’s father, just as his pictures
could be viewed only privately with his protective eyes. Nevertheless, as in Williams’s (2003) account of hallowed ancestral objects among the Manus Gypsies, these relics, too, despite the reverence, preserve the silent presence of the past
by means of everyday person-object interaction.
Beth’s reflexive account adds an additional layer to the
resurrection of the past, namely, the transformation of the
demeanor and selfhood of the survivor as he enters and exits
his past. When opening the drawer, the survivor becomes
“softer, more gentle, and more alive,” in sharp contrast to his
everyday cold, distant, and “dead” or “zombielike” behavior.17
This powerful depiction portrays a sharp dichotomy between
her father’s daily self-presentation as one “who had death in
his eyes” and his playful and happy moments when reunited
with his past. Beth’s calling her father a zombie may recall
for us Agamben’s (1991) living dead, yet unlike those “Musselmen,” Beth’s father is capable of alternating along the border of life and death, childishly alive in his virtual deathworld and dead when moving among the living.18 Beth,
however, offers a painful portrayal of her father’s life in the
present, asserting not only that he was “dead” around the
living but that his life in the present “was not real to him
17. Again, it might be noted that, in contrast to the symptomatology
of the flashback as only emotionally agonizing, here we see that the
“visitations” to the past may have a positive nostalgic component.
18. The evoked world is not the death-world of the camps but rather
the pre-Holocaust world. However, many survivors claim that this evokes
the death-world because it destroyed the pre-Holocaust life-world.
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. . . because he never left the past.” This jarring account implies
that even when leaving the virtual space of the drawer, he
never totally disconnects from the past or fully experiences
his present life.
The drawer presents a highly complex mnemonic mechanism. Capable of encapsulating the frozen past and animating that past during survivor visits, the drawer also functions as a powerful “gateway” separating temporal and spatial
dimensions and activating the alternate selves of the survivor
(playful/zombie) as he moves in and out of its space. Thus,
more complex than Parkin’s (1999) transitional object, which
temporarily acts as repository of the traumatized/displaced
self and later returns its contents to the resettled self, the
drawer is a permanent “black box,” periodically dormant or
animated and fluid. As the descendant spectator, Beth experiences her father’s virtual world and his alternating selfhood with the utmost reflexivity. She admits to sitting in total
silence with her father, unable or unwilling to elicit stories
about the photograph and toys and forbidden from directly
interacting with his relics. However, before diagnosing Beth
as the victim of her father’s traumatic emotional numbness
and apathy, let us explore her experience as she narrates it.
Her moments with her father allow her to “enter his enchanted forest,” “to be with the person she never really knew,”
and to share, albeit passively, in the “intimacy” of his playful
imaginary world. By no means belittling the empathic challenge of interacting with the “zombie” that he was during the
great majority of her childhood, Beth nonetheless paints a
dual picture of parental emotional absence alongside moments of intense emotional presence and sharing when he
“opened up.” As with Ricki’s jarring empathic exchange via
her father’s tattoo, one must move beyond the death-related
context of interaction to uncover the underlying silent connection, interaction, and “communication.” If, as Wardi
(1990) asserts, the descendant child grows up sensing that he
or she never actually knows the parent’s true self, then it is
during these moments of virtual copresence in the past that
the child can “go back there” with the parent(s) and encounter, in Beth’s words, “what made them who they are.”
The intensely intimate process of parent-child movement into
the Holocaust past entails the feat of synchronizing chronotopic worlds, allowing father and child to “be together in
time” (Sharon 1982) despite (or precisely because of) the
absence of narrative history.
The Reenactment of Practices of Survival
The final form of the silent presence of the Holocaust in the
survivor home is the network of mundane practices carried
over from the death-world. Although diverse, these practices
entail habitual everyday “strategies of survival” in the face of
feared hunger, cold, and illness that function to guarantee
physical well being, self-preservation, and sustenance. The
“lived body” (Merleau-Ponty 1962), as receptacle of past corporeal sensuous experience, is the key conduit for the re-
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presentation of past sensations of bodily distress. The selfsame
body then responds to present distress by reenacting Holocaust-related strategic precautionary practices, as the fearful,
cold, sick, or hungry body remembers and reenacts the strategies perceived to have saved it. Transposing Bourdieu’s
(1989) conceptualization of “habitus” as embedded and perpetuated social stratification, survivor practices embed the
corporeal experience and strategic scenarios of survival.19 One
may ask, then, whether this form of sensuous experience and
the resultant practices are part and parcel of the descendant
legacy. Some descendants recount their experience of survivor
practices (e.g., hoarding food, obsessive use of blankets and
illness prevention, dangerously testing the limits of their survivor skills), while others depict their own learned/inherited
practices of survival. In both cases, the network of habitual
Holocaust-related practices tightly weaves the presence of the
past into the daily fabric of domestic life.
Practices of Self-Preservation in a Mortally Dangerous World
When asked about the presence of the Holocaust in the survivor home, Emma recounted her nightly practice of preparing for the Nazis:
E: The one aspect of daily life that I can link to the Holocaust was that every night, at a very young age,
maybe 6 or 7, I would prepare my shoes, placing
them next to my bed, so that if the Nazis came I
would have shoes ready. I would also fold my clothes
in a way that would be easy to put on.
C: Do you know where you got this habit?
E: I remember placing the shoes in the center of the
floor in front of my bed so that if I had to get up and
I had to wear the shoes in a hurry I would be able to.
Why were shoes so important? My mother apparently
told me how she walked in the snow. I remember her
saying how cold it was, how she almost froze to death.
Now I know it was the Death March. Then it didn’t
matter what it was, just that it was something terrible.
Then I just desperately wanted to have shoes handy
. . . so that I wouldn’t have to walk barefoot in the
snow, so I would prepare it in such a way, so that if
the Nazis came . . . I specifically took the Nazi as the
enemy, because it was so terrible. Now it wasn’t that
my mother sat down and told me what had happened
to her. I think I just picked up on all sorts of things
that floated in the home.
19. Although de Certeau (1984) also deals with mundane everyday
practices, his emphasis on these practices as a form of subtle resistance
moves beyond the context of the present case.
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C: I don’t really understand how you can pick up on
things without being told.
E: I remember bits of a story I heard about how shoes
were really important, like how someone got so hungry that they cooked their shoes and ate the leather.
So I didn’t make it up, my imagination was not that
developed, I guess I just put things together.
As in the cases of person-object interaction above, Emma
phenomenologically experiences the presence of the Holocaust in the silent micro-moments and micro-acts of daily
life (Bakhtin 1981). The habitual practices of preparing for
bed and laying out one’s clothes are shaped by association
with the distant conditions of the Holocaust death-world. For
the 7-year-old Emma, shoes were not merely another recklessly worn piece of attire but an essential tool of survival
that, if carefully prepared in advance, would allow her to walk
in the freezing snow. As she describes her nightly habit, she
recounts her “inner talk” (Bakhtin 1981) of strategically planning the best position for her shoes in readiness of a hurried
departure. When I asked Emma to trace the source of her
practice, she repeated again the habitual motions of placing
the shoes in the front of her bed, as if both the cause and
the effect of her mundane past were stored and remembered
in the motions of the kinetic body. The repetition of Emma’s
childhood bodily motions take her, like someone attempting
to recall where they misplaced something, back to micro acts
in which “the material and the mental interact” (Turnbull
2002), conflating the Holocaust chronotope with her 1950s
childhood bedtime preparations and potentially allowing her
to recall the initial source of her practice. However, despite
her repetition of the “motions,” Emma insists that she does
not recall being directly taught to prepare her shoes for a
death march, nor did she “sit down” with her mother to be
told a full narrative of her ordeal. Echoing Merleau-Ponty’s
(1962, 137) assertion that practice is prereflective, consciousness for Emma is primarily a pragmatic matter of “I can do”
a practice rather than an intellectual “I know why I do it.”
Attempting nevertheless to trace the source of her practice,
Emma recounts that she was “apparently” told a fragmented
story about her mother’s walk in the snow and that she
“picked up on all sorts of things that floated in the home”
and then “put things together.”
Perhaps Emma’s reference to “picking up on things floating
in the home” signifies what Ruth Wajnryb (2001, 192) terms
“Holocaust Dicta,” one-sentence survivor references to Holocaust conditions, such as cold or hunger, told to children
out of context to critically remind them to appreciate the
comforts of their lives. Her mother may perhaps have unintentionally “given off” (Goffman 1959) her partial tale when
present conditions triggered an association. Alternatively,
Emma may have been a ratified eavesdropper (Goffman 1961,
131) of her mother’s tale told to visitors. Hoping that Emma
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might recall a storytelling event, I asked her to explain how
one “picks up on things” without being told. She responded
by telling me what has become a frequently cited “Holocaust
legend” of survivors eating shoe leather, which, she explained,
also instilled the importance of shoes as a tool of survival.20
Yet she could not tell me who told her this story. Perhaps it
was “borrowed” from a popular cultural account. Moving
processually away from her tacit childhood experience and
into public knowledge, Emma’s final narrative layer identifies
her mother’s “walk in the snow” as “the Death March,” an
actual, historicized Holocaust event. Only the adult Emma,
now well read in Holocaust history, could possibly trace her
childhood habit to a collective historical founding event.
In an attempt to understand this descendant practice, we
turn to psychological trauma theory. Psychologists Auerhahn
and Laub (1998, 30–31) assert that Holocaust-related practices performed by survivors are in fact “traumatic grafts” or
“transferences” from the Holocaust past, “experiential fragments inappropriately transplanted upon present life situations.” These practices are said to range from the psychotic
and delusional to the neurotic. Exposure to Holocaust “grafts”
is thought to transmit to the descendant not only the inappropriate practices but also their embedded messages of potential danger, hardship, and loss forever in one’s wake. Tyano
(1997), too, asserts that inherited practices depict how the
survivor’s sense of immanent mortal danger and “primary
will to survive” are transmitted to the descendant as part of
a wider network of trauma-related symptoms.
However, the theory of trauma transmission, like many
psychological conceptualizations of abstract cognitive and
emotional forms of knowing (Hacking 1996), fails to outline
the actual process and practice of “transmission” and “reception” of the parental past and its strategic lessons for the
present. Attempts to outline the process of intergenerational
transmission have given us a plethora of terms, such as “vicarious identification,” “secondary traumatization” (Figley
1995), and even the metaphysical term “osmosis,” yet all these
terms and implied “processes” fail to depict the way that
survivors “give off” their experience of trauma or the way
that their descendants internalize and embody the effects of
trauma. In contrast, Emma’s account successfully traces the
way the Holocaust is tacitly made present via corporeal experience and how that experience is engendered by diverse,
taken-for-granted, silent, semiverbal, and textual media in the
20. Both descendants and nondescendants are familiar with iconic
Holocaust tales that have become part of the collective repertoire of
Holocaust memory. Although to do so seemingly challenges the sanctity
of Holocaust memory, one might assert that, like urban legends, some
of these tales are of questionable veracity, yet they have nonetheless
captured public imagination. The story of eating shoe leather came up
in a number of interviews. Although one need not question the fact that
this may have happened in the Holocaust, one might consider the effect
of the popular cultural media image of Chaplin’s comic rendition of the
starved hobo cooking and attempting to eat his shoes and the way this
image might intertwine with popular cultural iconic tales of Holocaust
starvation.
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survivor home. In keeping with Lyotard’s critique of the mechanical metaphor of transmission (Lyotard and Larochelle
1992), rather than conceiving of the past as having been mechanically transmitted from one person to the other or from
one point in time to the another, Emma’s experience of Holocaust presence points to multiple sources of perpetual presence and empathic sensuous, visceral, and cognitive “responses” to that presence throughout the home.
Inheriting the “Empty Plate.” In popular cultural accounts of
survivor family life, “obsessive” food-related behavior is perhaps the most extensively cited practice. Interviewed descendants did, in fact, almost unanimously mention either hoarding stocks of food in preparation for the next catastrophe
and/or frantic parental pressure to finish the food on one’s
plate to avoid the “sacrilege” of discarding food. Tales ranged
from the extreme of placing food surreptitiously in one’s
pocket at weddings to 50-pound sacks of sugar in the cupboard (thought normative until visiting other homes). Recalling the tragic tales of wartime starvation and the critical
magnitude of daily bread rations, the great majority of descendants recounted bread-related practices. Hannah sardonically described the “recycling” of bread:
Bread was the most holy object in the house. They almost
worshipped it. Every piece they ate was like . . . I don’t
know . . . like reliving the moment they almost died of
hunger and were saved by that piece of bread. So you never
throw out bread, because it’s always as if it was that piece
of bread . . . you eat old bread until it’s dry and then you
turn it into toast, then breadcrumbs, which become meatballs . . . and then when the breadcrumbs are stale you feed
them to the birds . . . but you never, ever throw it out.
Too holy to be discarded, bread in Hannah’s family is endlessly
transformed into other forms of sustenance. At first glance,
the semiotic power of the present-day slice of bread, temporally and spatially removed from camp rations, cannot
compete with the evocative potential of Michelle’s authentic
spoon. However, as Hannah reflexively asserts, the practice
of eating their daily pieces of bread allows survivors to ritually
reenact the moment when they ate “that piece of bread.” Thus
recalling Seremetakis’ (1994) eloquent account of the nostalgic act of eating a peach that did or did not taste like the
peach of her youth, the commensal act of eating bread forever
incarnates the sensuous memory of life-threatening hunger
and miraculous survival. In contrast to the spoon, potentially
every plate of food or every slice of bread associatively transmits descendants to the death-world and in the process reembodies and reembeds scenarios of survival and genociderelated meaning-worlds. In this way, survivors perpetually
consume the Holocaust past and are consumed by it (Stoller
1997).
Although beyond the scope of this paper, survivor silent
practices were presented by descendants as embedding bodily
sensations and emotive responses that reenacted and made
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present the dangers of the death-world and their own miraculous survival. Thus, in keeping with practice theory
(Bourdieu 1977), survivor practices become the means of selfreproduction and the perpetual re-presentation of the foreboding past. Although the descendant experienced these practices as part of their tacit, taken-for-granted life-world, these
practices nevertheless encapsulated fragmentary information
regarding the physical/emotional conditions of life in a deathworld and the strategic actions required to survive. As Billig
explains, although practices are often silently performed, one
need not be able to “explicitly articulate” observed practices
or know why they are performed. “Responsive involvement”
with those performing a practice is sufficient to allow the
observer to “gain a nuanced and practical understanding of
a quite remarkable kind of what is displayed or carried in the
specific variability of . . . activities” (Billig et al. 1988, 23).
Therefore, first-generation practices, or “narratives in motion,” “displayed or carried” strategic scenarios of survival in
and meaningful commentary on a world where such practices
were essential. The child, “responsively involved” with parental practice—for example, at the dinner table, when cold,
or when sick—can in this way “tacitly and practically understand” that one must eat well, avoid danger, and remain
healthy. Although these practices are reflexively recalled by
most descendants as “eccentric,” they are nevertheless claimed
to be strategically effective behavior in the face of, as one
descendant termed it, “what survivor families know to be a
hostile and dangerous world.” However, these practices are
recalled as transmitting not only anxiety or pessimism but
also what descendants claimed was part of “the survivor’s gift
of life.” As in the case of Beth’s intimate interaction with her
father and Michelle’s account of her mother’s choice to keep
the spoon in their home, descendants point to the empowering and vivifying force of genocide legacies.
Discussion
Contrary to reductionist readings of survivor family silence
as a marker of absence, hegemonic silencing, pathology, or
the unspeakability of genocide, descendant accounts depict
the dynamic, normative, and self-imposed silent presence of
the Holocaust death-world interwoven with everyday life. The
interview, as a site of self-narration, allows descendants to
transform previously tacit knowledge of the surviving traces
of the past into explicit text. Although initially resistant to
narrative, these traces form an experiential matrix ranging
from silent interaction with surviving embodied artifacts and
freestanding memento mori to practices of survival as they
concertedly make the past present. In this way, silence may
be seen as a powerful and effective conduit of memory, maintaining the imminent presence of the past in the present. If
the matrix of silent Holocaust presence in the private domain
has been carried over via objects, practices, the visceral body,
and emotions and then silently transmitted to a descendant
via silent object-person relations, empathic person-person re-
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lations, and learned practices, then the matrix has enabled
the normative copresence of the Holocaust past alongside and
interwoven with the descendant’s present everyday life-world.
If the Holocaust past is forever silently interwoven with the
intimate sites of domestic memory, then we cannot refer to
survivor family experience as the presence of absence; it must
be described instead as the copresence of the Holocaust in
everyday life. If, for the descendant, the tattooed arm is one’s
father’s arm, if hearing cries at night is how one sleeps, and
if the spoon from Auschwitz holds one’s morning oatmeal,
then one cannot disentangle the mundane life-world as one
knows it from the interwoven copresence of the Holocaust
past. We must ask, then, whether the frames of Holocaust
scholarship have unintentionally silenced and absenced this
kind of silent copresence. Although domestic Holocaust silence is, in fact, the “forbearance of speech” (Merriam-Webster 2004), the resultant loss of words need not signal psychologically maladaptive repression of the past, the failure of
interpersonal interaction, or ultimate forgetting and absence.
Instead, the network of media of domestic silence appears to
constitute an alternative, nonverbal route through which the
emotive and corporeal experience (rather than the recollected
cognitive narrative) of the past may be transmitted/communicated and thus made actively present and lived in daily
interaction. These findings therefore provide an ethnographic
case study of the process and practices of what Halbwachs
(1980) and Nora (1989) referred to as “lived memory.” With
the help of this lived and intimate presence of the Holocaust
past, survivor families may avoid the historicity and forgetting
entailed in public forms of commemoration.
However, is silent memory work capable of transmitting
intergenerational knowledge of the past and constituting a
commemorative legacy? Could silent person-object and
person-person interactions be conceptualized as alternative
media of communication/transmission of the past to descendants? Ruth Wajnryb (2001) asserts that, although silent, intergenerational interaction between survivors and their children may be considered a form of communication. Wajnryb
explains that survivor-family interaction involves communication of a system of signs transmitted from parent to child
that constitute shared meaning. Lyotard and Larochelle (1992,
407–408) also call for a more flexible reading of “communication” as interactive meaning making. Language, they assert, is not essential for communication if by communication
one implies understanding or empathy. Communication and
transmission, as mechanical metaphors, erringly reduce the
complex process of language to mechanical relations. Bateson
(1982, 5–6), too, focuses on what he terms the mechanical
“lineal two-unit model of learning and communication.”
Learning takes place via multiple links or sequences of exchange that cannot be reduced to specific locations or moments of interaction. In applying these insights to nonverbal
intergenerational communication, one clearly need not use
language to achieve empathic relations and understanding,
nor can the complex network of nonverbal interaction be
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reduced to the narrow experience of “mechanical” linear
transmission. The use of the metaphors of communication
and transmission reduces the multifaceted field of our matrix
of interaction to relations between two specific points of parent-child communication and reduces the multilayered and
infinite process of exposure to and learning about the Holocaust past to one finite link between those two points. It
also assumes that the exchange of information reaches completion upon the “transmission” of one limited message from
one point to the other, once the recipient of a message has
“absorb[ed] it all” (Bateson 1982, 5). In contrast, the network
of media of Holocaust presence provides multiple and perpetual points of interaction or “links of exchange” between
and around the parent and child that are not controlled by
the parties involved; their effects cannot be predicted, nor
does the process of “learning” ever reach completion.
If parent-child interaction in the home allowed for the
silent presence and lived experience of the past and the silent
interactive exchange of information regarding the Holocaust
life-/death-world, then do descendants have “knowledge” of
the Holocaust past that could be imparted to a researcher,
their children, or the collective? As seen above, respondents
insisted at the outset of the interviews that they could not
tell me much because they did not have knowledge regarding
the past. It was only as their narratives progressed and they
proceeded to articulate the presence of the Holocaust past in
the survivor home that the taken-for-granted presence could
be storied, narrativized, shared, and potentially historicized.
How, then, are we to understand descendant “knowledge”
that is and is not knowledge of the Holocaust, knowledge
that effaces itself as potential testimony while nonetheless
embedding a rich network of Holocaust-related experience,
interaction, and learning? Recall Eve’s claim that she did not
know why her mother screamed at night, although she “knew
that it was about what [she] did not know.” What can be
said about our evidence of the descendant’s experiential
knowledge of the matrix of presence of a past that they themselves claim they could not know? Holocaust scholars and
“philosophers of genocide” would insist that there can be no
knowledge of the Holocaust because it is an event at the limits
that remains “in the excess of our frames of reference . . .
and cannot be assimilated into full cognition” (Felman 1992,
5). The content of survivor silence will forever be unknowable
as long as “one cannot die in his or her place” (Perrin 2004,
142). In accordance with Derrida’s (1976, 107) rejection of
“ontotheoteleology,” or an extralinguistic presence, Eve could
not have any knowledge of the content of the silence she
could not know beyond her minimal inference that her
mother’s screams signify the Holocaust. Are her mother’s
screams thus a negative ontology (Gergen 1994, 34) or a
negative sign signifying the absence of knowledge?
Once again, forms of knowledge appear to be at work in
the survivor home that are not conditional on commensurable
existential experience or verbalized historical knowledge.
These alternative forms might allow for a nonpositivistic form
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of “knowing” the Other’s experience and the possibility of
participatory experience. But what knowledge emerges from
the interaction? According to Fox-Keller (in Josselson 1995),
Platonic knowledge, as compared to Baconian knowledge, is
based on eros, union, and love. This union enables empathy
to create a “potential space in which the boundaries between
self as knower and Other as known are relaxed” (Winnicott
in Josselson 1995, 31). In this space, “aspects of the known
are allowed to permeate the knower.” Assuming that in this
space, the self and the Other “share participation in a matrix
of signification” (Josselson 1995, 31), the self may access an
internal array of the Other’s experience, allowing empathic
knowledge to emerge.
Thus, if the child interacts empathically with the parent
and shares participation in everyday, taken-for-granted, Holocaust life-/death-world signification, the survivor “may be
made present and known” to the child (Buber in Josselson
1995, 31). Over time, mutual coordinated interaction (Gergen
1994, 33) engenders a local ontology of relationship where
shared meaning emerges. Meaning and knowledge need not
be exclusively conditional on words as such, for they only
“generate meaning by virtue of their place within the realm
of human interaction.” Meaning is constituted by “communality” rather than “textuality” (Gergen 1994). In this way,
one might say that through her repeated mundane “mutual
coordinated interactional” practices of placing her head under
her pillow and waking her father to wake her screaming
mother, Eve came to empathically know the meaning of her
mother’s nightly attacks. Their wordless relationship could
still engender an empathic and communal form of knowledge
of the past without Eve’s having experienced or even having
been told the historical narrative of the founding event. She
could, in fact, “know” why her mother screamed without
historical Holocaust knowledge.
McHugh’s (1968) definition of personal knowledge extends
descendant empathic knowledge of the past to actual “personal knowledge.” McHugh asserts that one has personal
knowledge of another’s most “private experience” without
experiencing the event because when “defining a situation”
we need only know what is felt by the Other and not actually
experience the feeling. When taking the place of the Other,
we need only know what he/she “makes of his place.” What
the Other makes of his place and his feelings are accessible
to the observer because feelings “are not private property
. . . they are performances . . . public and observable” (1968,
134). Having observed his/her parents’ performance of feelings and what they “make of their place” on the border of
the life- and death-worlds, the descendant defines the situation toward “personal knowledge” of the survivor
experience.
If we acknowledge the descendant’s empathic or personal
knowledge of his/her parents’ postwar experience of their past
and even their feelings regarding the copresence of that past
in the family present, how may we explain their disavowal of
knowledge? Polanyi (1958, 88) proposes that personal knowl-
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edge entails tacit knowledge that either cannot be “adequately
spoken” or has yet to be articulated. For one unable to explicitly voice distinct ideas, tacit knowledge is expressed in
the “instrumental particulars” of daily life. “We know many
more things than we can tell, knowing them only in practice
as instrumental particulars and not as objects. The knowledge
of such particulars is therefore ineffable” (p. 88) until we
reflexively narrate our experience. Despite this ineffability, a
matrix of signs may still convey or signify this knowledge,
which may then be shared.21 Before self-narration of their
childhood, of “instrumental particular” Holocaust-related
practices signified and shared in the private sphere, descendants have only tacit knowledge of the presence of the past.
They know only that events routinely occur that signify experiences that they do not know about, although their own
life-worlds are saturated with the instrumental practices that
together constitute that knowledge. If, according to MerleauPonty, all perception embeds and is qualified by a world—
by a disposition and orientation (Merleau-Ponty in Young
1987, 1)—then descendants’ perception of their world is
clearly qualified by the orientation that they do not have
effable knowledge of the Holocaust. Nonetheless, when I reworded my questions to inquire about the presence of the
past, rather than recount their knowledge of the past, descendants recounted the countless semiotic and instrumental
anchors with which they defined the situation of the copresence of the past, empathically took the place of the Other,
and acquired silent personal and tacit knowledge of the parental past. They described their lived experience of the matrix
of shared Holocaust signification in the silent survivor home.
This case study raises various methodological dilemmas and
theoretical implications. If researchers are to undertake ethnographies of silence, how are they to approach the difficult
task of ethnographic work without words or narrative to act
as the familiar conduits with which we elicit and record subjective accounts of lived experience or validate our participant
observations? Are respondents’ retrospective accounts of embodied memory, bodily practices, and person-object interaction valid ethnographic “evidence” of silent life-worlds and
the presence of the past? Is it sufficient to claim that these
accounts are phenomenologically true, or are they mere representations of what is already the problematic realm of “distorted memory” (Schudson 1995)? Although the solution may
lie in traditional methods of microanthropological participant
observation in the everyday lives of our subjects, two key
problems arise. First, not only do we risk returning to the
“sins of the fathers” and the objectification of our subjects,
but despite contemporary exercises in disciplinary reflexivity,
21. In a similar vein, Merleau-Ponty describes prereflective knowledge
as consciousness turned out on the world and available to be read by
others. We know ourselves “in our actions and interactions . . . there is
no inner man, man is in the world and only in the world does he know
himself” (Merleau-Ponty 1962, xi, in Butt and Langdridge 2003, 479).
The survivor home and its silent matrix may be seen as the externalized
selves of the survivor and the descendant.
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our “moral visions” (Hayden 2007) of the healthy, vocal, and
politically liberated individual may wreak havoc with our observations and findings, reflecting our own worldviews rather
than the lived experience of our subjects. Second and more
specific to the general case study of silent memory work (and
perhaps less so to a study of embodied practice), all would
agree that, ideally, the ethnographer would wish to be present
at the constitutive event at the inception of memory, with
Eve when she covers her head with her pillow. However, when
exploring silent memory work as process, as the evolution of
lived experience from tacit embodiment to empathic communication and finally to the constitution of subjectivity as
mediated by reflexive recollections of the imprints of the time
on emergent selfhood, it is precisely the nascent attempts to
articulate tacit knowledge that become essential. The effect of
experience and discourse in the temporal gap between event
and representation (as seen in the case of Emma’s shoes) need
not merely be seen as “noise”; instead, once accounted for,
it should be seen as opening up new focal points in the
research endeavor. Finally, although microanthropology has
traditionally explored mundane lived experience, the mundane experience of culturally sanctified experience (be it ideologically, religiously, or morally loaded) has been ignored in
favor of the examination of the way culture publicly structures
and celebrates the sacred as distinct from the mundane. A
return to the micro sites of silent everyday experience without
retrospective narrative accounts that might give voice to the
banality of experience—experience that would otherwise be
culturally sanctified—would serve only to sustain Cartesian
dichotomies and not to consider the more complex dialectic
between the mundane/sacred and the private/public.
The case study also raises numerous theoretical and practical implications. As mental health professionals work with
trauma survivors and descendants around the globe and
agents of memory establish museums and community centers
introducing Western forms of commemoration and testimonial projects in war-torn countries aiming to liberate traumatized and silenced voices, the above findings point to the
importance of culture-sensitive definitions of illness, healing,
silence, and memory work. Echoing Ian Hacking’s (1995)
critique of the proliferation of psychological illness constructs,
scholars might be wary of “making up people,” pathologizing
and collectively enlisting silent survivor families rather than
exploring alternative or supplementary forms of private, silent, and nonpathological forms of interaction and commemoration. Comparative studies of silent genocide victims and
descendants are called for so that lessons learned from culturally diverse forms of re-presentation and recollection of
difficult pasts may serve to sensitize those who seek to interpret, heal, historicize, and liberate silent voices of
genocide.22
If this case study sheds light on diverse and complex processes of silent memory work in everyday life, then we might
22. See McKinney (2007) and Kidron (forthcoming).
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call on memory studies to turn their attention away from
Nora’s (1989) “dead memory” of public commemoration to
the more subtle and intimate processes of what Halbwachs
(1980) conceptualized as “lived memory” interwoven with
the social milieu of mundane experience. Although the foundational concepts of dead and lived memory were coined
decades ago, there have been few attempts to observe nonmonumental memory work or to record ethnographic accounts of how lived memories emerge, function, or change
over time. Are the processes of personal private memory of
no interest if they do not allow us to align ourselves on the
left or right of hegemonic or revisionist readings of history
or to contribute to the moral crusades (Hayden 2007) of
public agents of traumatic genocidal memory?
In the process of exploring private memory work, we have
also discovered what might be termed the “normalization” of
traces of death-worlds interwoven (and not repressed or silenced) with everyday life-worlds. Not merely present on the
surface of daily interaction, the tattooed number, the shoes,
and the soup spoon are experienced as living reminders of
the enigmatic power of survival and human resilience rather
than merely eliciting emotive distress, mourning, or morbidity
in the descendant generation. Because these traces have become seamlessly intertwined in what descendants take for
granted as their ontological experience of “the way life is,”
this case study calls on us to problematize scholarly readings
of the sequestration of death in everyday Western life. Aiming
to deconstruct one more dichotomy—that of life/death—we
might further explore the way in which the embodied, practiced, and materially objectified past enables subjects to fluidly
move into and out of past death-worlds and chronotopes with
or without “historical memory.”
Although this case study and discussion have focused on
trauma-related memory work, the silent mnemonic practices
and processes depicted here may present a tentative model
of nontraumatic lived memory work. Families that have not
experienced genocidal suffering nonetheless experience parallel mechanisms of silent memory work. The matrix of signification, entailing interaction with embodied objects, silent
parent-child interaction, person-object interaction, and finally
transmitted survival practices, may be isolated and charted in
the experience of nonsurvivor families. Although events surrounding separation, loss, and death may have unfolded more
“naturally” in nonsurvivor family life, scholars might explore
the way the longed-for past, loved ones, and memories of the
dead and dying remain interwoven in everyday life. In accordance with Bertaux and Thompson’s (1993) critique of
the absence of research on nonpathological forms of familial
transmission and remembering, the proposed model of silent
familial memory work presents a tentative blueprint of nonpathological forms of intergenerational transmission. Although differing, perhaps, in emotive intensity from traumatic
memory, nontraumatic familial memory and the intergenerational “communication” and “transmission” of that memory may also be similarly embedded in tacit forms of parent-
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child and person-object interaction. A better understanding
of these silent familial mechanisms will potentially shed light
on the function of mnemonic legacies in the phenomenological constitution of subjectivity.23
To return full circle to our opening critique of logocentric
paradigms of silence, this study of the silent presence of the
Holocaust past has consistently pointed to the gap between
academic discourse on the “absent” traumatic past on the one
hand and the everyday lay experience of the presence of the
past on the other. We may then ask, What is it about the
nature of academic paradigmatic frames that causes us, despite the great pride we take in reflexivity, to cut out of our
frames such fundamental aspects of everyday life-worlds and
to perceive predominantly reductionist formulaic behavior
rather than allowing for the diversity we claim to exist? In
this case of trauma-related silence, does the answer lie in the
politics of genocidal memory and the symbolic and sociopolitical capital of agents of memory invested in their discursive formations? Despite postmodern deconstruction of
Cartesian dichotomies, lingering Western logocentric conceptions of silence and speech and of absence and presence appear
to blind us to the rich world that lies between these two poles,
between silence and speech, between absence and presence.
Acknowledgements
I would like to sincerely thank Benjamin Orlove and the
anonymous reviewers for their very thoughtful comments,
which greatly enriched the paper. I would also like to thank
Paul Antze, Michael Lambek, Allan Young, and Laurence Kirmayer for our fruitful dialogues in the early stages of drafting
the manuscript. I am indebted to Don Handelman as a constant source of insight. I recall Tania Forte (may she rest in
peace), who encouraged me to explore the magic of material
culture. I thank Giora Kidron for our stimulating discussions
and his editorial eye. I am grateful to the Halbert Exchange
Program, the Canadian Institutes of Health Research Strategic
Training Program in Culture and Mental Health Services, and
the Morris Ginsberg Foundation for the funding toward my
postdoctoral research in Montreal and Toronto in 2005–2006.
I most heartfully thank the descendants for allowing me to
share in their memories.
23. This and other ethnographies of individual silent memory work
may contribute to psychological anthropology’s concern for the inner
subjective experience bracketed, at least temporarily, from pathologizing
psychological and biomedical concepts.
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Comments
Robert M. Hayden
Department of Anthropology and Center for Russian and East
European Studies, 4419 W. W. Posvar Hall, University of
Pittsburgh, Pittsburgh, PA 15260, U.S.A. (rhayden@pitt.edu)
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Carol Kidron makes a highly original and very important
contribution by seeing silence about severe trauma as a matrix
for communication of nonpathological knowledge of traumatic events, rather than as a manifestation of repression to
be overcome. The analysis is the more powerful because it
may be generalizable beyond the specifics of Israelis and the
Holocaust.
Kidron’s depiction of parents using silence to transmit nonpathological knowledge of traumatic events struck me especially forcefully because it suddenly let me understand elements of the lives of people in the former Yugoslavia whom
I have known for many years. What is not well understood
about the former Yugoslavia is that the terrible events of the
1990s were lesser versions of the horrors perpetrated there
from 1941 to 1945, “lesser” in terms of the numbers of casualties and the sheer cruelty and brutality of the murders
and tortures inflicted during the earlier period (see Dulić
2005, Hayden 2008). In the 1940s, the most numerous victims
were Serbs in the so-called Independent State of Croatia, of
whom one-third were to be killed, one-third expelled, and
one-third converted to Catholicism; this was state policy. Jews
were, of course, to be exterminated, as were Gypsies (Roma);
these two groups suffered proportionately heavier casualties,
but far more Serbs were killed. This is no more “ancient
history” than the Holocaust; both are events in the memory
of those who lived through them.
Kidron helps me understand the reticence in the 1980s of
some Serbs from Croatia about what had happened to their
families there in 1941–45. Over the course of years, I came
to know the outlines of stories of those whose parents had
seen their family members raped, tortured, and murdered and
their homes burned. Some of the children of the survivors
had the stories in fragments, because their parents, like those
of Kidron’s informants, had not often or willingly told them
much about them.
Within the context of socialist Yugoslavia, this silence could
have had a political dimension, because the Communists,
victorious over Croat, Serb, Bosnian Muslim, and Slovene
nationalist and fascist forces, as well as the Germans, Italians,
Bulgarians, and Hungarians who had partitioned and occupied the country, commemorated the war dead generically as
“victims of war and fascism.” In a country based on an official
ideology of “brotherhood and unity,” commemorating the
specifics of murders and tortures by former and even present
neighbors was seen as too risky.
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But it is the personal dimension that is more relevant to
Kidron’s argument. Through their only rarely broken silences
about the horrors they lived through, the parents of my friends
exemplified how their own lives were defined not by their
sufferings or even by surviving them but by building new lives
rather than constantly living in the horrors of the past (the
spoon-from-Auschwitz story related by Kidron is remarkable
in this regard). Even after war came to Yugoslavia in 1991
and the memories were revived (I wrote at the time that the
past was being remembered in order to repeat it [Hayden
1994, 1995]), the people who grew up with the kind of nonpathological, embodied presence of the past dealt best with
the reappearance of many of the same configurations of opposition and the explicit invocations of the horrors of the
past that were made to provoke atrocities in the present.
Yet if silent transmission of information about pathologies
can help induce nonpathological knowledge of them, then
the reverse may also be true: dwelling on pathologies may
produce pathological knowledge, even hatred. There is evidence from psychology that genocide accusations not only
increase hostility against the accused group but also increase
the aggressiveness of the group on whose behalf the claim is
made (Wohl and Branscombe 2004). Tzvetan Todorov (2003)
has argued that claims of being the victims of genocide are
better viewed as political tactics aimed at getting present-day
advantage than as commemorations of past victims. As the
wars began in Yugoslavia, Bette Denich (1994) and I (Hayden
1994) argued that highly publicized Serbian claims of having
been victims of genocide in the 1940s were politically motivated, even though, as discussed above, they were largely true.
The point was to drive people to enact the pathologies of war
by recalling vividly and explicitly the pathologies that members of their groups had suffered.
By showing that survivor parents’ silence about the Holocaust transferred nonpathological knowledge of it to their
children, Kidron is challenging not only established schools
in psychology but also, implicitly, the justification for using
graphic and personalized accounts of suffering to “commemorate” the victims of genocide. If the parents of her informants
were right, dwelling on pathology is inherently unhealthy. This
is a view that may not be popular with all who are involved
in commemorating victims of mass killings. Kidron’s article
is thus a brave one, a highly original approach that offers a
powerful challenge to established wisdom and to established
political interests. In short, it is the best kind of scholarship.
Michael Lambek
Department of Anthropology, University of Toronto, 19
Russell Street, Toronto, Ontario M5S 2S2, Canada
(lambek@utsc.utoronto.ca). 13 X 08
This paper addresses issues that are at once perceived in the
public realm as grave and consequential and by scholars as
highly complex and difficult to resolve. Is the experience of
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events that are ethically “unspeakable” literally so? Are the
consequences of suffering the unspeakable necessarily pathological, and is such psychopathology inevitably visited on
the next generation? When is pathology the correct or appropriate modality for describing the effects of violence and
for remembering and, in effect, legitimating the truth of the
cause, and when is it to be interpreted with suspicion as a
form of moralizing? Although she continues to use the word
“trauma,” Kidron is courageous and, in my view, correct to
suggest the superficiality, the incorrectness, and even possibly
the harm of much (but not necessarily all) trauma discourse.24
These large ontological and epistemological questions
frame the more immediate concerns of anthropologists. A
critical problem for ethnographers is how to document and
understand silence. Are we professionally too readily inclined
to push our informants into putting things into words? Are
we obsessed with turning their private and sometimes inchoate feelings into analytic discourse or symbolic interpretation?
The strength and persuasiveness of Kidron’s account lie in
her ability to resist these tendencies and to recognize silence
positively, as itself a kind of voice rather than a kind of
repression.25
Kidron effectively triangulates between the time of the interview, the time of her informant’s childhood, and the time
of the parent’s original violation and internment. What does
it mean to remember the events of ones parents’ lives, and
to what extent do their experiences become our own? Wittgenstein asks how we know another’s pain. We do as young
children recognize our parents’ pain through their under- or
overresponsiveness, their withdrawal, or their excess of affect.
As the child becomes herself against, or in the context of, the
parents’ acts and affects, so the nightly screams become an
internal terror and the oatmeal spoon a part of everyday life.
We know “that” or “how” our parents suffer (and are sane)
because we, too, are suffering (and sane). Knowing “that” or
knowing “how” is more basic and more salient than knowing
“why” they suffer, an explanation that can only come from
placing the private experience within the public narratives
encountered in school and elsewhere. Moreover, to know our
parents’ suffering and their sanity in its intimate particularity
is not to know “the Holocaust” in its immensity but to dispense with such reified abstractions. What would or could it
mean to say “I know the Holocaust”? Kidron rightly begins
by taking the her informants’ cue to abandon questions of
knowledge in favor of simply seeking evidence of its presence.
But in the end, is she still captivated by the idea or the ideal
that there is a single thing (or event) out there to know?
In her attention to the everyday materializations of affect,
24. For a range of perspectives on these issues, see the forthcoming
collection edited by philosophers Kristen Brown and Bettina Bergo
(2009).
25. A further step is to ask when silence is the product or manifestation
of a “language ideology” that values silence for itself. Perhaps Kidron
does not pursue this because silence does not have this value in the Israeli
context.
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Kidron joins scholars like Das (2007), Steedman (1987), and
Young (1996, 2006), who write powerfully about violence and
abjection. Perhaps more squarely, Kidron depathologizes the
survivor past. The shocking moral for those who would like
to use narratives of survivor suffering for political ends is that
socialization in these families may not be so different from
that in others. Parents are always a partial mystery to their
children, and their lives before one’s birth is somehow unimaginable or, rather, dependent on imagination. Whether we
take the opacity in childhood of our parents’ lives, loves and
losses, successes and defeats as an “affecting absence” or as
“salient silence” surely depends on many factors, including
both internal family psychodynamics and the ways in which
the private world is transfigured in public narratives that urge
interpretation along particular lines.
Kidron argues that memory and silence need not be inherently political. As she says, “By conceiving of survivor
silence solely as politically and ideologically loaded absence,
ethnography [and not only ethnography] fails to seek [or to
perceive] phenomenological accounts of the silent presence
of the past.” I am persuaded by this.26 Yet I must also inquire
about the relationship between the attention within Israel to
memories (whether publicly noisy or privately silent) of events
that took place in the past and the relative inattention to
(refusal or inability to acknowledge) Palestinian suffering that
takes place right now. The way to honor victims of the Holocaust might include compassion, empathy, and a principled
decision never to humiliate an enemy or to place anyone
within walled enclosures. A lesson of Kidron’s paper might
also be to acknowledge and respect the nonpolitical no less
than the political dimensions of the grief of others.
Nissim Mizrachi
Gershon H. Gordon Faculty of Social Sciences, Department
of Sociology and Anthropology, Tel Aviv University, Ramat
Aviv, P.O.B. 39040, Tel Aviv 69978, Israel (nissimm@post
.tau.ac.il). 23 X 08
In the introduction to the special issue of Ethos entitled “Histories and Subjectivities,” Geoffrey White, the guest editor,
outlines the collection’s theme by drawing attention to a relatively neglected area in the study of memory, the “connections between personal memory, narrative practices, and
larger social and political formations” (White 2001, 494). In
line with this new direction of inquiry, Carol Kidron’s insightful and stimulating paper sheds new light on the transmission of traumatic memory by Holocaust survivors to their
children. Contrary to the prevailing discourse in Israel, survivor descendents consciously refuse to turn their private
memories into public testimonies. Kidron’s pragmatic ap26. I have myself conceived remembering in the key of ethics rather
than politics (e.g., Lambek 1996, 2002).
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proach traces these silent forms of memory work in everyday
life within the familial domain.
The discrepancy between her findings and the prevailing
academic discourse provides Kidron with a point of departure
for her original analysis. The crux of the matter lies in the
epistemological divide between current academic discourse
and Kidron’s pragmatic theoretical approach. In that discourse, silence is fueled by the hermeneutics of suspicion, to
use Paul Ricoeur’s term (Holub 2005, 281), and is regarded
solely as a surface phenomenon signifying a concealed, essential reality to be penetrated. In contrast, Kidron considers
silence an appropriate cultural option, available to survivor
descendents during their daily “sense making” of the traces
of their parents’ past. She therefore prefers to turn her incisive
ethnographic gaze toward her silent subjects and to propose
a thorough reading of memory transmission and enactment
through bodily, spatial, and daily behavioral practices within
the domestic and familial domain.
Nevertheless, as to the hermeneutic pendulum swinging
between “histories” and “subjectivities,” Kildron’s analysis
seems a bit weighted toward “subjectivity.” More precisely,
“history” and context are underrepresented in Kidron’s account of the subjects’ lived experience, which therefore remains somewhat incomplete and context free.
Many of the reported practices appear as her subjects’ isolated individual responses to memory traces of their parents’
horrific experience, while little attention is paid to the broader
collective meaning of the Holocaust for the descendents. To
be sure, in widening the context one should not abandon the
subjects’ lived experience. On the contrary, one would anticipate that for descendents, mostly middle-aged individuals
raised on Israel’s canonic national narrative of “from the Holocaust to heroism,” the broader meaning of the Holocaust
would permeate sense-making processes in the private
sphere.27 In addition, if silent and verbal forms of memory
work are both cultural options, a fuller picture of the informants’ life and context would provide us with a better understanding of the conditions under which individuals choose
between these two forms of memory work for their cultural
repertoire.
Another aspect of the immediate context is the empirical
methods used. The memory practices under investigation
were not observed directly by the ethnographer. In fact, the
quotes representing memory work had gone through double
screening and double narration, once by the informant and
later by the ethnographer, herself the child of Holocaust survivors. Whereas Kidron is aware of the mediated nature of
her data, her analysis takes reported events at face value. A
more critical approach to the narration processes and “filters”
through which the tales of silence were shaped might have
cast further light on the subject matter. For instance, consid27. For an ethnographic study of the dialectic conducted between the
public and the private sphere in the practice of memory work, see Goodman and Mizrachi (2008).
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ering the interviews as ethnographic events in themselves,
during which middle-aged informants retrospectively selected
and restored their stories, could have added another dimension to the analysis of silence as a cultural strategy for memory
work.
Whereas some of these concerns reflect the broader theoretical dilemmas lying in the open space between histories
and subjectivities and others are related to methodological
considerations and limitations, Kidron’s major contribution
lies in her very insightful theoretical stance. By turning the
direction of inquiry away from top-down grand historical,
moralistic, and psychologically deep-structured approaches
fueled by the hermeneutics of suspicion and toward the individual’s actual practice of memory work, she has opened
up a whole new space for ethnographic research. In offering
a new, pragmatic reading of silence as a form of memory
work, she has managed to untangle the conceptual knot that
had flattened the subject and moved analysis away from individual lived experience. Carol Kidron’s article is a worthy
contribution to the growing pragmatic turn in sociology28 and
cultural anthropology and to the study of the Holocaust in
particular.
Barbara Rylko-Bauer
Department of Anthropology, Michigan State University,
2825 East Fulton, Grand Rapids, MI 49506, U.S.A.
(basiarylko@juno.com). 23 X 08
Carol Kidron provides an intriguing and complex exploration
of silence as a mode of transmission of Holocaust memory
within the home of Holocaust survivors. In examining varied
forms and meanings of silence, she highlights alternative ways
in which survivors pass on their Holocaust experience to their
children without directly narrating their past. She correctly
notes that silence does not, a priori, denote avoidance, erasure,
or pathological repression and can, in fact, be an intimate,
nonpathological way of dealing with a horrific past. Nor is it
the case, automatically, that descendants of Holocaust survivors suffer effects of transmitted trauma. As her research
demonstrates, these are issues to be studied and not assumed.
Kidron begins her article with a wonderful example of how
ethnographic research can provide new understandings of
whatever social phenomena we are studying. In this particular
case, an interviewee named Eve claimed to not know anything
about her parent’s Holocaust past, because they had never
talked about it, but then went on to note that “the Holocaust
was present in my home.” It is these “nonverbal and partially
verbal traces of the Holocaust interwoven in everyday life”
that Kidron examines in her article.
The excerpts from Kidron’s interviews with descendants of
survivors are powerful, enlightening, and at times very moving. They made me wish for even more in this “ethnography
28. See, for example, Schatzki, Knorr-Cetina, and von Savigny (2001).
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of silence.” I wondered about parent-child relationships and
familial contexts when reading some of the narrative excerpts,
especially since “lived memory” was a key aspect of her analysis. Her discussion of three descendants’ responses to the
presence of tattooed numbers on a parent’s arm was fascinating, but I also wondered how many of her 55 respondents
mentioned this specific, very visible reminder of their parents’
past; not everyone who went through concentration camps
was branded this way.
I felt at times that the ethnography was in danger of being
swamped by the theorizing and deconstruction. Of course,
Kidron needed to embed her work within relevant academic
contexts (general and Holocaust-specific studies of trauma,
memory, and silence), which she does quite thoroughly. I also
appreciate her close reading of how silence and “presence”
worked in the daily lives of her interviewees, but I would have
liked to see more balance and further presentation of Kidron’s
undoubtedly rich interview material.
There is also opportunity, with these data, for even further
exploration of the normalization of emotions, artifacts, embodied objects, and habitual practices within descendants’ life
stories. This is a powerful link to the past, for normalization
is a theme in many Holocaust accounts: both the normalization of violence and dehumanization that was a hallmark
of Nazi practice and the efforts on the part of prisoners to
normalize mundane aspects of life as a survival strategy in
the face of the grotesquely abnormal world of concentration
and slave labor camps, ghettos, and death marches.
A series of questions came to mind in reading the article,
among them: What were the specifics of Kidron’s methodology? How did the Israeli historical and cultural context
shape how Holocaust survivors dealt with their traumatic
past? Would her findings be different if she sampled U.S.based Jews? I was surprised to find answers to these questions
set apart from the article, in a series of supplements.
It was informative (supplement A) to see the various ways
in which silence has been conceptualized, across disciplines,
as absence of speech, rather than as a unique entity of potentially equal relevance and meaning. However, the abovementioned issues (methods and cultural context) should have
been succinctly integrated into the body of the article, for
they are central to understanding Kidron’s research and findings, not supplemental. For example, it was important to
know that Kidron, as a descendant of Auschwitz survivors,
connected with her interviewees in ways that someone without this history might not have been able to. As she notes in
supplement B, “upon hearing a tale of ‘silent presence,’ I
would often share one of my own tales, which in turn often
triggered more tales . . . . Thus, for both the respondent and
myself as the ethnographer, the interview process became a
. . . process of joint rediscovery.” This is a key methodological
point that brings to mind Barbara Myerhoff’s concept of “a
third voice,” the voice of collaboration (Kaminsky 1992, 7).
Finally, Kidron suggests that the tendency to frame genocide studies in moral and political terms has contributed to
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the paucity of “phenomenological accounts of the silent presence of the past” and argues for the validity of micro analyses
of memory: “not all memory work hinges equally on power
relations and empowerment.” It is, of course, possible to do
both simultaneously. I would argue that part of our obligation,
as anthropologists, is to ensure that the political—which in
the real world of lived experience is all too often elided—be
always somehow incorporated, regardless of the focus of our
specific research. The suffering of those whose stories and
experiences we tap into demands it.
Reply
When I set out to re-present an account of my findings on
descendant experience, it was abundantly clear to me that
contemporary discourse on genocide survivor families and
preferential scholarly interest in macro commemorative processes would make it difficult to present a convincing case
for a nonpathological form of silent Holocaust presence. Although I critically deconstructed epistemological readings of
silence and of pathologized trauma descendants to bring attention to academic “blind spots” and pave the way for a
wider field of vision, I hoped that the case for a bottom-up
analysis of private memory could “carry its own” because it
was grounded in descendants’ phenomenological accounts of
the silent experience of micro familial memory work. Nevertheless, although none of the very thought-provoking comments took issue with my reading of the matrix of silent
presence in survivor homes or with the implications of my
findings regarding therapeutic intervention in survivor populations or enlistment in commemorative projects, two of the
four commentators critiqued the ethical and methodological
viability of an apolitical bottom-up exploration of Holocaust
memory work “decontextualized” from Israeli sociopolitical
reality and public discourse and practice.
I begin from a point of consensus regarding silent memory
work. As movingly depicted in Hayden’s account of silence
in the former Yugoslavia, the choice not to voice one’s memories of suffering need not signal pathology, hegemonic silencing, or the absence of knowledge. Taking my argument
one step farther, Hayden suggests that those who have experienced the silent presence of traces of the past may in fact
have become more resilient to social suffering. Rather than
merely legitimizing silent familial “commemoration” as a
valid and perhaps even healthy alternative to vocal public
memory, Hayden’s point calls for further analysis of the constitutive role of childhood exposure (and the exposure of
entire populations) to the lived material, emotive, and embodied presence of the past. One might ask whether parentchild empathic encounters sensitize descendants to human
suffering, to their own community’s loss, and, perhaps, to
what Lambek refers to as “compassion” for the Other. Have
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person-object relations with the spoon or with photos of murdered relatives familiarized descendants with death-worlds in
some way that prepares them differentially for future chaos
and loss? Beyond issues of normality, compassion, or increased resilience, I propose that for those whose only familiar
ontological life-world entails the taken-for-granted movement
between the living present and the embedded remnants of
death, their experience of shared suffering and even linear
time itself must deviate from that of those untouched by death
(Meisenhelder 1979). Rather than seeking the symptomatology of PTSD, further study might examine the microcultural
dynamics at play in these interwoven life-/death-worlds and
the selves they engender. If memory work is critical in the
phenomenological process of constituting selves (Lambek and
Antze 1996), then beyond the top-down hegemonic construction of paranoid/militant subjectivities and public dissemination of mnemonic technologies of self (Goodman and Mizrachi 2008), it is critical that we understand the way lived
memory of violent pasts has engendered a “genocide self,”
not, as Lambek warns, as a reified carrier of private or public
Holocaust knowledge but as a living and breathing mode of
being.
Strikingly echoing the critique of my more recent Cambodian-Canadian descendant respondents (Kidron, forthcoming), Hayden also problematizes the effect of testimony,
suggesting that it is precisely the public recruitment of previously silent memory in oral-history projects or truth tribunals that risks inciting renewed conflict. As typologies of
collective memory have shown, public commemoration of
genocide serves to honor the collective dead by sustaining
their presence among the living while instrumentalizing the
past to serve political ends. Because, as I would hope my case
study has shown, families silently sustain the copresence of
the living and the dead in the familial life-world, this leaves
us with the highly problematic contribution of monumental
commemorative projects, namely, the bolstering of national
political interests or no less politicized sectarian moral lessons.
Concerning the therapeutic benefits of personal or collective
testimony as the working through of the genocide past, even
activists and mental health professionals like Rousseau, Morales, and Foxen (2001) question whether Western-Eurocentric psychosocial or political intervention “fragilizes” a community’s link to culturally grounded tools of healing and
remembrance and whether victims only strategically (and
temporarily) adopt trauma-related technologies of self in order to meet pressing material needs. As they note, in the
absence of longitudinal ethnographic research on the lived
experience of suffering and its aftermath, neither scholars nor
activists can gauge the efficacy or danger of intervention.
Despite the commentators’ interest in the silent presence
of the past and implications for intervention, both Mizrachi
and Rylko-Bauer raise methodological questions. Although I
agree with their contention that it would be fascinating to
observe the silent presence of the past in situ in the family
life-world, it is surprising that the validity of descendant ac-
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counts should be suspect, considering that the crisis of representation remains an inherent and endlessly debated dilemma of all ethnographic research and narrative analysis. As
asserted in the paper, my research objective was not to document the constitutive events in the descendant childhood
nor to observe the construction process of the descendant
self but rather to capture the way descendants narratively
author their silent legacy and themselves as sensually and
intersubjectively “knowing” that legacy. Observation alone
risks falling back on our own moral and intellectual visions
of passive, wounded, and silenced victims of hegemonies
without the benefit of our subjects’ accounts of a far more
complex lived experience.
Regarding the problem of sociohistorical contextualization,
an account of the evolving Israeli sociopolitical context and
Holocaust discourse and practice was presented, for lack of
space, in supplement C (including reference to AmericanJewish contexts). As for the constitutive role of discourse on
the descendant self, it is precisely the gap that opens up between events and the framing of retrospective accounts of
those events that enables future sociological readings of the
effect of discourse on identity that interests Mizrachi. Although it is beyond the scope of this study, my broader research project (Kidron 2005) did outline the political-ideological worldviews framing descendant accounts (i.e.,
humanist, nationalist, and religious) voiced in the more structured second half of the interview and compared the accounts
of enlisted descendants to those of descendants who “resisted”
public forms of commemoration. Although the expanded
study allows for a sociological profile of descendant identity,
the narrower study presented here provides a much-needed
glimpse into the private realms of memory, while most importantly remaining methodologically loyal to the descendants’ narrative choice (and not the researcher’s choice) to
narrate private intersubjective memory work, as distinct from
the effect of public discourse work.
To return full circle to the viability of an “apolitical” study
of memory work, although we may be ethically obliged as
individuals to take to the barricades, to heal or liberate human
suffering, as ethnographers, our “moral vision” may well “impair our insight” (Hayden 2007). As Euro-Western discourses
of hegemony and subjugation, human rights, victimhood, and
trauma take on a moral register of universal truth, enlightenment, and progress (McKinney 2007), our personal and
professional vision of what should be remembered and articulated, as well as how, where, and by whom, is in my view
at odds with the ethnographic imperative of “sustained engagement” with our subjects “on their terms” (Jackson 2004,
54). Rather than taking it on ourselves to “redress the injustices of the world,” we might “do justice to the way others
experience the world and what is at stake for them” (Jackson
2004, 54). Thus, despite Rylko-Bauer’s suggestion that we
might reflexively “do both,” I fear that we may unwittingly
allow paradigms and political agendas to define what is at
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stake for “them” and risk absencing and silencing alternative
experiences of the past.
—Carol A. Kidron
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