Your Name Engraved Herein
By JK Sooja,
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Heartfelt but flawed coming-of-age romance has violence, sex
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What's the Story?
In YOUR NAME ENGRAVED HEREIN, two teen boys fall for one another during their last year at boarding school. Unable to fully express or enjoy their blossoming love, they must navigate constant threats of physical and emotional violence, assault, and public shaming. Thirty years later, at a funeral for one of their old teachers, they reunite. Will they still share a connection? Will they have answers for each other about their shared histories?
Is It Any Good?
This tender romance too often falls into melodrama, but still manages to move the heart. In many ways Your Named Engraved Herein is a decent introduction to queer teen romance despite the film's tendency to veer into preachy moments. The two leads are excellent portraying their coming-of-age gay identities and their developing love for each other. They share confused sexual encounters, stolen looks and glances across classrooms and band practice, intimate trips to the sea, and moments of genuine love. Wang Po-te (Tseng Ching-hua), or Birdy, is a force throughout the film and his more serious and gloomier counterpart in Jia-han (Edward Chen) grounds Birdy's absurdity with a solid gravity and appreciation for his friend and would-be lover's wild nature.
Unfortunately, there are a few issues. The film meanders in the middle and ends poorly and is wholly unsatisfying. Mostly, though, Your Name Engraved Herein just gets melodramatic, often defending the existence of gay boys or homosexuality generally, as if it feels it has to first establish this fact before representing gay love. This heavy-handedness could be taken as part of the development of Taiwanese cinema, but it also could be simply be an antiquated representation of oppression and how to resist it, depending on who you are. Many scenes end up in overly dramatic dialogue, like when Jia-han wonders through tears, "Is my love not the same?" or like when Birdy's ex-wife decisively proclaims that, "liking boys is innate." Additionally, a lot of the drama involves physical assault, sexual assault, psychological shaming, bullying behavior, hate crimes, arguing, yelling, crying, shoving and pushing, running from threats and even ghosting. Not a lot of happy scenes. Positive scenes of queer intimacy do happen, but they're almost always cut short and fleeting. There may be a metaphorical explanation for this, but the pacing and plotting of the film still suffer for it.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how Your Name Engraved Herein portrays post-martial law Taiwan and Taiwanese culture. Do you think the risks of being openly gay at that time were handled well? What was missing? What was there too much of? What else might the film have shown to deepen queer representation, even in a period piece (late 80s) such as this?
How do you feel the film handles the two lovers' constant threat of being assaulted or harmed? Why do you feel they spend so much time running and fighting? What else could the film have shown them doing instead?
Were there enough positive representations of queerness and/or gay love? Why might some audience desire more? Why might some audiences desire less?
Do you feel satisfied by the final third of the film? By the end? Why or why not?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: December 23, 2020
- Cast: Tseng Ching-hua , Edward Chen , Leon Dai , Shih-Sian Wang
- Director: Kuang-Hui Liu
- Studio: Netflix
- Genre: Romance
- Topics: Friendship , High School
- Run time: 114 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: February 19, 2023
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