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Self appreciation should involve understanding of self to begin with and a lot more. Your selfless actions should make you love yourself for your selflessness. When the inner self is beautiful, the whole world will look beautiful.

An anthem for the lonely. Valentine's day can be hard on the people alone..try finding a hallmark card for someone single on that day. Just like christmas is so hard on those with no family. We tend to neglect those that aren't the majority when it comes to holidays. This is a song from my ballad collection. For all the thorns without a rose on that day. Valentine's day can be a day of rejoice for singles if only they united. This song is about when you look back on a past relationship and forgiven not just the other party but also yourself.. it takes two for the demise of a relationship. But usually ego and the inability to handle and respect both parties emotions. They do not teach emotional intelligence in school. So everyone is winging it based off their own dating experience and watching their parents interaction. With a divorce rate so high, leads me to believe it is mostly based off of poor communication and emotional intelligence. Those that cast blame in order to not look bad and simply just delete a past love pushing their side of things under the rug usually have not faced their own pain or admit their own wrong doing head on. Therefore stunt any self growth and deep down still harnesses resentment and negative energy which bleeds into their next relationship. A tale of someone playing the victim and remains their hurt inner child. Usually the party that is most guilty , cannot put aside their ego , immaturity and admit they had a role in why it came to an end. People usually find someone they mostly like and figure they can change what they don't like down the road, which usually ends up in a blow out. Communication and respect is most important on the way in as well as on the way out of a relationship. obviously there are some situations such as domestic violence that are a completely different scenario. If you don't set your boundaries from the start.. don't be upset when the walls start to collapse around you or when you can't change what you never communicated was not acceptable from the get go It is easier for most to paint someone else with blame. Then to risk looking bad or admit ones own immaturity. Clicking delete and blocking someone out is a quick fix and digital example of running from your problems. rather then heal and understand what went wrong to know how to be better and match better in the future, most rush to someone else checking their old unpacked baggage on a new flight. If you don't put the work in, you are no different. You haven't changed at all. If you still say bad things about an ex, what does that say about you? Your own growth ? Will you let go ? Or will you stay "BITTER" "You say that I'm a quitter, well you can stay, stay Bitter." - Shawn Michael Kay out on valentine's day. pre save it here. 😣

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