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If you’ve been scrolling through TikTok or Insta recently, you may have heard the term “the ick” tossed around in the world of romance. And if you’ve been scratching your head trying to figure out what it means, you’ve come to the right place. While the ick is a pretty new term, the sentiment behind it is as old as relationships themselves. In this article, we’ll break down what the ick is, why it’s become so popular, and how to deal if the ick ever washes over you. Keep reading and the ick will be a minor blip in your happy, healthy love life.
Things You Should Know
- The ick is a sudden and visceral turn-off from someone you’re dating. It’s often hard to explain and happens at seemingly meaningless times.
- An ick can be a physical turn-off (like a gross habit) or a difference in opinion that makes you feel distant from your date.
- Sometimes, people use icks to avoid intimacy. Before letting an ick ruin your relationship, talk to someone you trust and decide if your ick is a legitimate reason to break up.
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References
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- ↑ https://www.mass.gov/service-details/recognizing-the-signs-of-unhealthy-relationships